| Ok so real quick history on me: i was a typical afc, then got into the written books on the pickup world about five years ago. It was just a curiosity for me at first and where i was living at the time made pickup too difficult for me to handle (though it was certainly possible).
I later lived in North Hollywood for a year and really got into the game, though there it was a bit rough with the material i had, as i was actually asked a few times if this was true, or that they had heard this before. Since then i have tried to diagram why the premade lines and routines work, then write my own stories or lines that are unique but have the same subtext. I attended an un-named boot camp with just a large community group. It was free and the level was low, but it was a good way to communicate ideas and support each other.
fast forward to 3 years ago, i had been using various game methods with limited success, never that amazing, but was never that dedicated so it was my own blame. Well i landed a serious relationship, mostly by dressing differently than almost everyone in my college (guyliner ftw) and once i got the girl i was locked into a very serious and fast moving relationship, got engaged, had wedding invites, etc etc.
Well that fell apart for a lot of reasons i can see now, i as well can see now that it wasn't really making me happy.
So since we broke up i have been rebuilding my social life, as it essentially disappeared when we were together. I work as a bartender at a restaurant which makes meeting good looking girls incredibly easy.
I met a lot of the girls i hang out with today while i was dating the ex, and during that time i was flirty, but never with the backing to it, so they could tell it was just in jest. Needless to say i friend zoned these girls as i was far too late in generating attraction. Im fine with that, as out of this came my best friend, who happens to also be one of the hottest (though not in my opinion) girls and top of the social circle in this city, very very beneficial, great social proof, though i have had to train her to not project our relationship onto her friends when i meet them.
Anyway, i am back into the game, and after getting over the whole sleeping with someone new thing, i feel a great awakening, especially with the success i have gotten using some of the newer material out there, in such a short time. So some great early motivation for me.
Well that's my intro, hope to progress with all of you.
Since this is just the intro forum i have decided to put a link into last night's lay instead of posting it here. So expect the link in just a few minutes.
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