Hey guys I have recently broken up with my gf well she broke up with me and I want her back how am I able to do that I've read the game and learned a hell of a lot from it but am by no means an expert... I have been ignoring her for a couple of days now and she has responded well and we have been talking again (it wasn't a messy break up things just didn't seem right for her) and I believe I lost value and need to demonstrate it again.. We will be hanging out once Uni is over and I have a bit of a plan... Please help guys thanks

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Mrwzrd

Make her jealous

Yeah I was thinking that but what I was going to do was organise to see her over the holidays. She will message me and ask to hang out and I will say I'm busy then organise a time on my terms. Take her out to lunch and just be confident, funny, well groomed etc and just show her I'm ok with what's going on. Thoughts?

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Mrwzrd

I'd say give her space and just be yourself. You seem to be handling it well. Set some boundaries for yourself regarding how far you are willing to go to get this girl. Don't let her walk all over you once you hang out again and just stay confident and consistent in your ACTIONS

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E'erbody Say 'Ayyyy We want some PUSSSSAAYYYY'

Tell us what this plan is so we can give some actual advice!

Wow thanks for the fast replies guys im handling it ok cuz of mates support and im pretty confident i can get her back.

My plan: she hasnt got alot of friends and she mentioned getting some lunch in a few weeks when uni holidays are on and the stress of that has gone, she will ask me to hang out, when she does ill say im busy that day and then plan lunch on my terms. I will take her out for lunch somewhere we have been before so its familiar and i know the food is good ill dress to impress (she still thinks im attractive) get some new cologne (one million for men she loves it and i havent had it yet) so it gives her a new me vibe, when lunch is done ill excuse myself and go pay without letting her know then she will argue about paying and stuff and i will say to her "I believe the word your looking for is thanks" then smile at her she will say thanks then ill point to my cheek and she will kiss it (inspired by mysteries kiss goodbye gambit) then ill tell her she can get the next one (plant the seed of her thinking of a future lunch date) I will also invite her out later that night to come bowling or something with some mutual friends (if she comes great i will have her meet at my house then ill take her with me) then when we are there i will hang out with my mates and have a good time and not dote on her but not ignore her either. If she doesn't ill have some friends tag on facebook about how much fun it is etc (note: she is an independent girl and doesn't have a lot of friends so if she isnt hanging out with me she will be hanging out with her sisters who both want us back together. she will notice the facebook stuff then ask me about it later... i think its a fairly solid plan but would definitely love some advice or changes that may work? or have worked in the past?

Thanks again guys

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Mrwzrd

hmm ive also noticed she has been accepting a few guys on facebook that she wouldnt know.. am i focusing to much on it and should just leave facebook alone? i talked to her tonight briefly but she was a bit of a bitch so im going to have no contact and let her talk to me.. which she will.. sorry to be such an AFC about the whole thing ay its just frustrating the shit outta me lol

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Mrwzrd

Hmm yeah seems pretty solid what you have thus far. Personally I never come up with strategies but just use my intuition . . . Which usually leads to Epicness. What did you discover about the hobbies of this girl? Perhaps try to use that information to your advantage. And if she treats you like a bitch go put attention on other girls.

she loves shopping, the beach usual girl stuff but we are still friends ive been a massive AFC about the whole thing and honestly think i should atleast try and move on.. Anyone in newcastle AUS that is keen to go out and meet some girls or should i try internet dating? ive never done that before so i wouldnt mind giving it a go

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