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Posts: 11 | Hey hows it going. I planned on starting a new thread with a current "shit test" I am having, and realized, I have yet to do an introduction on this forum! So in all fairness, I wanna get the formalities out of the way and officially get this filed. Well here goes nothing...
- I'm 23, been in the game now for a little over 3 years thanks to a good friend who I stayed with during a summer internship for college. I'd describe myself as a very reserved, artistic, open-minded, calm confident guy. This plays into my style of pua. I prefer picking up at house parties, picnics, festivals, or any other "less intimidating" place. I DO NOT fancy clubs, bars, or any other place like that.
- If I had to choose, I would rather use PUA to "escalate" a girl slowly and methodically so that she becomes more attached. The goal would be to have a "f buddy", a multiple month fling, or a LTR of some kind, and NOT a one night stand. I'm not saying I would straight up deny that opportunity if it came up, but I would want to try and pursue the other options first.
- So with that said, my goals are to work a bit more on my inner game. I found myself being needy or clingy in the past. This taught me a lot of lessons such as how to properly push-pull, how to be a MAN when needed, and since I am young...how to keep the frame of "have some fun, if you lose her you lose her, oh well". But I still suffer from it from time to time.
- I also need to get completely over my approach anxiety, I would say I am 75% over it. I have found a few mental shifts I use that help me in the field during the split second before the attempt, but there are those very few times I still get that "I wonder what she is thinking, and hmmm what is the perfect opener" crap.
- Outer game... There are few things. The first thing is eye contact, I wanna know everything EVERYTHING about PUA and eye contact. I wanna know the right eye contact for the right times, where to move your eyes on her body, what to do during that "make eye contact, she's either like "wtf this dude looking at" or "damn Mmmm" moment", all that stuff.
- The second thing for outer game would be things like:
-when walking with a girl in public, how to display "i'm the man, I'm your man, everyone back off" vibe
-...idk if I think of more I'll edit this post
- Hobbies are running, online business ventures, writing, reading, music. Also if anyone knows more about "artsy" hobbies that they find fun, let me know of some cool things I can start up that would DHV me. I'm big into art and photography.
Alright, cool. Well I expect a warm welcome, about 1000 likes, and AT LEAST 50 replies within the next 2 hours. Or alternatively an answer to a question I am about to post. A question about a shit test i received via text last night that I have yet to answer...A shit test saying how she thinks I'm hot, wants to "play around" but because of "X" reason she doesnt want me to waste my time, and she usually fucks things up blah blah blah...I'm doing a mini freeze out while I think of what to do here...have yet to respond.
OK COOL, that was actually fun. I hope to help and share any wisdom I have, and if anyone has questions feel free to message me. I have my smartphone tied instantly to any updates, messages, emails, etc. and I'll leave ya with this...
I aint got beef with nobody; I keep it green kid
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