| hey guys,
this is my first post in any pua forum. i read "the game" on an 11h flight because a friend of mine recommended it to me.
i never knew of the existance of this community before i read the book, but now i need to get good at this and FAST!
about me:
I'm decent looking guy in my early twentys and live marbella in the south of spain. i never really had
trouble with talking to random people in clubs and stuff, but when it comes to girls that seem atracted to me and i'm by myself i kinda shut
down and get pretty nervous and often start rejecting girls because i dont know how to deal with the situation.
1st Success in the Field after 3 previous attempts:
my mate picked me up to grab some dinner before going to a club later in the evening. as i got in the car he asked me what I'm
doing wearing those sunglasses and told me they looked like something his sister would wear...
So we walked into the club got ourselfs a drink at the bar and went outside to the smoking area. we were standing by the bar and nobody else
was there. i was thinking bout what opener im going to use first then i thought id give it a shot and get a female opinion on my sunglasses.
after about 3 minutes a group of 3 british girls walked out (two hottish girls and 1 extremely hot girl) as soon as they came out i walked up to the and started a conversation:
me: hey girls, i gotta go back to my friend over there but i need a female opinion on something
girls: ok wat is it?
me: my friend over there said that my sunglasses looked like something a girl would wear (showed them the glasses) what u think?
girls: one of them claimed to have the same pair of glasses just in another coulour and she said that she also seen them on guys before
me: i need to see for myself (i turned to the hottest 1 out of the 3) here try them on (she put her hair to the side and leaned towards me like she wants me to put them on her) so i did. i smiled and said "ok they cant be for girls, they look terrible on you!" then i grabbed her shoulder and pusherd her away a little bit and said that i was kidding and that they looked interesting on her.
hot girl: smiled and handed me the glasses.
me: i turned away and said i gotta go back to my friend.
girls: what u mean they look interesting? she's hot, she can wear anything...
me: since when is interesting something bad?
girls: well its nothing bad but
me: nobody wants to be boring so i suppose being interesting is a good thing
girls: so don't u think she's hot?
me: i think she's cute because she's so shy and her friends are doing the talking for her
hot girl: im not shy!
me: so ur not shy? let me see ur hand.
hot girl: shows me the palm of her hand
me: i look at it and say interesting while letting her hand go
hot girl: why do u keep saying interesting?
me: ooooook the palm of ur hand is super hot! put my arm around her while looking at the girl. SO demanding, is she allways like that?
girls: laugh and say "u have to give girls compliments, girls love that"
me: grabbed the hot girls hand while looking at the other two girls "do u mind if i kidnapp her for a second?" i think she's shy
because of you girls."
girls: laugh " yea because of us, we've only known eachother for xx years. as long as u promise to bring her back, u can kidnapp her
me and my mate had a table in the club where we could sit down.
after we sat down i leaned back on the sofa and slapped her knee gently "so tell me what else u got going for u, beauty is so common these days that u will need alot more to impress me"
her: talks of her job, some charity, thinks she loves to do...
me: all that but still so shy!?
her: i'm not shy
me: no you are a real crazy one arent u?
her: sometimes, i can be, depends
me: while putting my arm around her "yea yea, ur a real crazy one. then i took my arm away and pushd her gently
"did u ever kiss a guy 20 minutes after u met him?"
her: no never
me: would u like to kiss me?
her: leaned over and kissed me
any comment, advice, criticism is welcome.
p.s. excuse my english.
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Vanqu1sh
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