I've read the game and mystery's book now what r the first things i should do to get me from AFC to the next level I'm doing this alone by the way and live in a town of about 10000

Start meeting people. Everyday.

At least ten per day - everyday. Start engaging. Even if it's simply "Hi, how are you?". Get out there. Your goal now is to make the approach as natural as can be until it IS natural.

Welcome.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

cool im actually going to a much larger town tomorrow so i'll go to the shopping plaza and give it a go. with my approach is it alright to talk to people sitting at a cafe or shopping wats the best way to go about it

ICONSG,

i too am new at this, been doin it a couple of months so maybe help each other out every now n then!

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yeah it would make it easier with someone pushing you. were r you based

ICON,

I don't care if you see a woman walking down the street towards you... Break that sound barrier to getting yourself where you want to be. SMILE at her and just say "Hi, I'm new here... do you happen to know where XXXX is?" It's that easy.

Just engage. If a guy drops change, help him pick it up and ask "Having one of those days?"

You're simply meeting people. What what you're scared of doing right now - will not be nearly as traumatizing as it sounds, and you might actually ENJOY it!

Only positive things can come from this. You're not saying "Hi, wanna fuck?", you're making small talk.

The sad, truthful reality is this - it doesn't matter who says what about learning Game.... experience is your greatest teacher. Newbs that read a book and get laid a couple of times are all well and good... but show me the one that can sustain that. THAT's the guy I'm going to listen to. Anyone that says they can teach you to be a natural PUA in a couple of weeks is full of shit.

It's taken years to be at the level I feel I'm personally at now. I'm not "Don Juan"... I'm simply a guy that is aware of a woman's sexual indicators, and I'll attack them as often as I see fit. I've ran game successfully for many years - but over the past 2, I've delved deeper than I've thought possible - and have improved to where I'm deadly. If I'm in teh mood to fuck, I have zero doubts I can FIND it. That mindset alone is my greatest ally. And no matter what I read, watch, discuss... NOTHING beats getting my ass out of the house and meeting people.

If I'm not in a mental-funk that day, I challenge myself to open a set wherever I'm at. Even now.

And, I enjoy it.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Retiredrodeo thanks for your words your the fucking man. I was sitting in my car in the plaza carpark trying to psych myself up when I thought I would check my account and your words spurred me along I didn't do ten but I got 7 small talk encounters and it was not as bad as I thought that was Saturday, today was not so good i was walking towards the counter of k-mart when I saw a girl I thought I would like to make small talk with but the longer it took to get their the more I made excuses and I ended up reverting back to AFC mode that sucked balls but tonight I'll redeem myself when I do some food shopping

Cheers mate any more advice

No worries. You realize what you're doing wrong - and you're already ahead of the curve. Many can't comprehend that.

You're dead on. Your frame is the problem, not any woman in the world. If you're upbeat and positive and you think "I'm meeting a woman; it's not scary, creepy, or difficult - I'm going to enhance her life!" Then you're where you need to be.

How do you know that next woman isn't your future wife (if you ever want that...)? You don't. I say it like this... I cannot stand "what if" moments in my life. I've even said that to a woman on a reel back after she'd flaked. I said "I'm the over-achiever type. I cannot stand 'what-if' moments in my life. I'm not built that way. So, I'm taking that first step towards embracing that 'what-if', and I invite you to do the same." --- and gained complaince. I left it purposefully vague and somewhat cryptic. If SHE gave a shit, she'd gain understanding, and I'd proceed. If she didn't, I lost nothing.

Told that to my two mPUA friends, and they laughed. High five'd me for having the stones to pull that off without sounding like a pussy...

The golden rule - it's only a line if SHE thinks it's a line. And, sometimes, the cheesiest bullshit is the best as well...

Why? My mindset and mental frame are always upbeat and in a good mood. I like women. I like fucking them, and I like talking with them. I like MOST everything about them...and I fucking LOVE gaming them.


Go in positive!

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.