I'm looking forward to be able to share ideas and learn something from this forum.
I often talk to my close guy friends about issues, but sometimes I need a different perspective, or I don't feel comfortable talking to them. I am more interested than anything else in gaining personal growth. So hopefully I can come to this forum once in a while to get other member's perspectives.

About me: I am an artist, creative-social type. (I paint, DJ, sing and produce music).
I have had a lot of luck meeting women throughout my life, but sometimes I choose the wrong ones to get close too. So I want to improve that.

I am above average in looks, but I don't think I know how to use that. But I may have been spoiled growing up due to looks which probably made me lazy at meeting women. Can somebody relate to this? I do have sex pretty often, and not just by myself, either. I want to take myself to the next level by calibrating my thinking and behavior so that I can improve the following areas:

-Controlling my emotions of guilt when dating multiple women
-Being consistent in approaching and meeting quality women
-Filtering out "crazy" women (cause crazy is only good in bed.)

If you can point me to some posts or if you have some valuable feedback (preferably based on experience) that will help me to improve upon these issue, I would be grateful.