I've been attempting to incorporate the strategies outlined within this field for some time now without success. I have some products and have read some books, but my greatest challenge has to be confidence.

Not just confidence, but the ability to sort my shit out - -i believe that this is due to the fear i have. It's keeping me within my comfort zone, and not allowing me to be able to break out form my mold of nice guy.

I'm really going to give this one last shot. Last, because i have to succeed this time. It's affecting all other areas in my life!! My business, my work, my family and social life...(now practically non-existent!).

Things have to sort out. I have to get good at this, in my analysis, seduction is a skillset which will make you into a better man. A better leader, no-one can look up to an inept socially awkward engineer. I WAS also the best engineer in the company, now i'm being overlooked by younger guys who know half of what i know.

I've lost my killer instinct. I've lost my mojo....really, cause once you're not out hunting. You're home dying.

I have to get this done. This is my commitment;
Daily Commenting here on the forum on new topics
Read everything
Develop custom scripts to use here in my country (it will be slightly different from USA)
Have a daily journal on my progress, goals and targets.

This will not only be a journey in the PU arena, but in sorting all areas of my life!

Thank you for having this community. Will give back as much as I can.

Hey man, congrats on taking a big step to changing your life, I'm in a very similar place. I've started a journal in the fields report section of this forum as a place to keep myself accountable and start implementing the change that I want in my life.

My best advice to you is to write down your goals, for every part of your life and then break them down into manageable pieces. This goes for PUA skills too. I have just decided to approach and open 100 women by a certain date, i ask nothing more of myself than that for now. Little steps, they all add up to big change.

Best of luck!

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