Hey new to the forums originally from NC now im in LA on account of the Airforce. I have two questions I would like to ask right out of the gate.

My first question is about getting a girl in a military town. I live on base in LA and every time I head downtown to clubs or bars every girl is so uptight when you start talking to them. Ive used a simple smile and greet, interesting fact greet, common interest greet. Im out of ideas When I head home and go downtown (not a military town) I have no trouble in finding women. Any advise?

Second question is about a girl im very interested in. She just broke up with her boyfriend so im not pressuring her to get in another relationship. We've been talking about two 1/2 weeks now and have escalated to making out/ little dry humping. She's a strong christian girl and likes to go slow instead of just putting it out there. Which I respect completely. Anyways back to the situation, Im heading to a huge party that happens once a year for memorial day and its six hours away. Im wanting to hangout with other girls for one im not in a relationship with this girl and for two she's playing hard to get and going to parties even though she shows interest in me. I have a feeling little down the road she's going to want to settle down in a relationship but the fact that she just broke up with boyfriend, she wants to enjoy being single for a while.

My question is should I respect what we have and just "talk" and flirt on the trip maybe get some numbers for later or be myself and be a player on the trip? I also have "friends" that are going on the trip that know her, and have crushes on her. Im afraid they'll tell her anything I do on the trip to get in her pants good friends right?