| Hey Rango,
Hmm, looks tough. I havent been at PU too long, I've got some ideas which may work, may end horribly - I dunno, hoping others will comment too and help me know if my strategies are sound.
Your situation: You wanna bang these chicks you've known for a while.
Assumptions:
-You're currently in the "friendship zone" - a fate worse than hell where in girl become comfortable with you without being attracted to you
-People are fucking at your school. They always are.
-Girls self-worth (at boarding-school-age) will be fluctuating and thus the friendship zone is more maleable than it will be in their 20's
Suggestions:
Plan A: - The In-Crowd
Step 1: Become bros with the one of the "in-crowd" dudes (ie, the dudes who are banging the chick you want to bang). While working into this social circle via the dudes, be sure to give zero attention to the girls.
Step 2: As you get to know the group (presumably the group with whom you are already acquainted, but don't hang out with regularly) start gaming the chicks as they get to know you further - DHV, neg, dis-qualify, let the girls ear IOI's, etc.
Step 3: Do the rounds - start baging the hot chick and her friends.
...if social constraints make Plan A unlikely, try Plan B
Plan B: - Escaping the Friendzone via a DHV - Social Proofing
Step 1: Pick a girl who is single, hot, already a close or close-ish friend, and a nuturing person (each of these criteria are essential)
Step 2: Start cocky-funny negging chicks especially her... this will piss her off. Let her become pissed, then dial it back to make sure she doesn't think you're a jerk but that she is both irritated and concerned.
Step 3: When she asks you why you're acting like a jerk, arrange to have a private comversation with her (in a place you can escalate kino)
Step 4: Invent a story about - I dunno - something you can be concerned about (maybe an uncertain future, maybe something feelings-related, anything that doesn't DLV), and you've been lashing out because you were feeling vulnerable, but that's not fair to her... etc etc.
Step 5: Keep the conversation going, let her earn your trust, let her work to get you out of your shell. At this point ask her for a hug - or just do it.
Step 6: Escalate kino. Hold the hug for an instant too long, turn your head slightly inward, go for the kiss. See how far you can take it - a pity fuck is still a fuck as long as you arrange the situation to DHV.
Step 7: Now that the "touch-barrier" has been broken, make-out with / bang her on the regular.
Step 8: Go public with it. As long as she's hot you will become more desired by other chicks.
Step 9: Pick a different chick and start building attraction then comfort with her. Since self-esteem is so volatile at this age, and within the microcosm of a boarding school, this might work.
P.s. If anyone else wants to weigh in on any possible pit-falls I may have missed.
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