Hey all, really glad i found this Forum. Im 29 year old white male, and i have been just another AFC up until a few months ago when a friend of mine introduced me to David DeAngelo's material. Ever since than i have dived head first into DeAngelo's material, as well as Mystery's and Neil Strauss' books. Just finished The Game this morning. I have been a desperately frustrated AFC ever since my first case of One-itis back in high school. It has been a debilitating disease i have suffered from ever since, destroying any initial game i had, as i quickly morphed into a puppy dog who would literally lay down and die for her if she had asked and gave away any power i potentially had. Absolutely pathetic, but now i have the tools and the tech to become the man i was meant to be, not the child i once was. My goal is not to manipulate women, but to naturally be more attractive to them, to give them what they really want, which is a confident man on his own path in life (excuse me if i sound like DeAngelo right now, I'm pretty deep in his programs right now).

I do have a question off the bat. My worst case of one-itis was a few years ago, a beautiful dark haired and almond shaped dark eyed italian 19 year old with a killer body who literally turned me into a puppy dog. I got her email and started tailing to her (the night before i deployed to iraq, which was part of my "game") and wrote her back and forth. I knew i was F'ing up as i wrote them on some level, and i quickly killed any potential attraction. We eventually stopped talking after i went home and went to the bar where she worked, drank too much, pushed too hard and made an ass of myself. It was over. My question is i am considering writing her an email, not of apology, but as more of an explanation, of where i was and where i am now, and even running some mild game on her to see if i could spark something. IM fine with rejection now, i can handle it, and if i don't hear back from her whatever, nowadays she's just another girl so who cares. I should also tell you I'm currently in Afghanistan and there are very few women here to run game on, not to mention i have to work on a daily basis with some of them.

Im really glad to be here and look forward to making progress with you guys. Peace!

you don't need to explain anything. I think it will make you look insecure and needy. My advice is that you let her go, she doesn't need any explanations, bitches hate that thing, she will figure it out on her own. If you want her so badly, you can practice your "game" on other women so that when the time comes, you will be ready and armed to face her. It will make you more alpha, i guess. Though im new here, i'm quite experienced with that kind of prob.

thanks man, thats the conclusion i came to as well yesterday, it would seem needy and needy destroys game, plain and simple.

Nice Goodluck sarging! best of luck