Heya,

Big time AFC here, new to the entire scene. Only learnt about it after reading through the game on one of my friends recommendation. It seems really surreal that everyone has managed to break pick-up down in to a science.

I'm currently a 20 year old engineering student who spends most of his off time either ballroom dancing or socialising with friends. Yet i've never in my life had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I have a few questions, Does this stuff really work? Is there really hope for people labelled as 'social rejects' such as me? If so, where do i start?

Yes this stuff really works! Yes it will work for you, if you commit to it! Where do you start? Well, it starts in your mind. You have to ask yourself two very serious questions. One, do I want more for myself out of life? Two, am I willing to do what I need to do obtain it?

Some people are still stuck on the second question. When you are ready, start small. Work on your approach anxiety. Start talking to random people, even if it's just to ask them what time it is. Get use to walking up to people and asking them something.

Remember this isn't just about love, it's about your health, and wealth too. This is a life changing event. You'll be working on your own inner programming, your health, and your love life. Its not an easy thing to do, but it can be done. I started this two months ago, and have accomplished a lot already. If you're ready, get out and start talking to people!

BTW, Welcome to the Forum!

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Hey Scion. Where do you ballroom dance? And you've never gotten a girlfriend from it?

Yes Scion, this "stuff" does work. Welcome

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Venusian Arts
Virgin -> 60+ Girls in 6 Months!

Yep, been dancing now for 2 years, and have danced with countless girls at my dancing club. However it's never landed me any sort of intimacy with women apart from actually dancing with them. I dance at an arthur murrays studio in my town. Can the fact that i dance even help with getting a girl?

Considering how bad i am, and considering how i've never really had any experience at all, i think trying to learn and apply these techniques will be a REAL test for these teachings. Cause at the moment, i feel helpless and hopeless when it comes to girls and for a long time i thought i'd never be able to get a girlfriend, i'd almost accepted it as fact until somehow one of my freinds recommended me the book the game, which i read and didn't believe. And that sort of gave me some hope, i just hope it's not false hope.

Question is though, where the hell do i start? considering i can barely approach girls let alone flirt with them.