Hey all. I'm a Chinese American who had no luck with women thus far. My career is good, but right now I'm lonely and desperate. Any help is welcomed!

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Fortune Favors the Bold

Welcome!

Hey AznChump,

I was in your shoes about six years ago. There was a beautiful Blond 9 that had a huge crush on me in college, this girl signed up for a summer class just because I did, and I couldn't even make that happen. That's how bad I was. The few successes I had had with women had little or nothing to do with anything I had done and was only because for some reason unfathomable to me they liked me. I had never really been with a girl I chose.

The first thing you should do right now is stop thinking of yourself as a chump because as of now you are no longer a chump. Your career is going well and you're here to better yourself so you obviously have brains and ability. If you work at this, really believe it and believe in yourself, before you know it you'll be looking back and you won't even recognize that chump you might have been before. Trust me, I know.

Read some posts and choose a method to start with, it doesn't really matter what method just as long as you're comfortable with it. Start talking with everyone and integrate the stuff you are learning. Find some like minded people in your area if possible. But most importantly persevere because anyone can do this but not everyone will.

Congratulations and Welcome!

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