Hi all

Newbie here from the uk,i am 39,i know bit old,i am new to the game,found the forum yesterday by chance,and i like what i saw,doing some reading through today.I just need help with my game,i am funny,and cocky,i dont find it difficult to make the ladies laugh,but after that i get nervous.
I am looking for some advice on a situation i have at the moment with a 42 year old,i think she might be playing me,would love some advice.
If anyone is interested,i will post more about it.

thanks
Thesmiff

Hi tony
thanks for the reply.I am not sure why i get nervous,but i believe the ladies spot this,and then decide no go.I have a situation with a 42 yeard old,she is well fit,and i believe it was handed to me on a plate,and i froze,and i think now the chance has gone,could use help on it.

So come one, what's the situation?

I'm a touch older than yourself, so have an older game feel..

If you want you can just pm ?

I first met her last year,we added each other on fb,and we chat some nights.I was out new years eve last year,and she was there with some mutual friends,she beckoned me over,so i went,and we chatted,and had a bit of a dance,she gave her phone to a friend,and had them take pics of us together.We chatted a while,and got on really well.A week later it was her birthday,a few of her friends went out,and she invited me,again,chatted,flirted some,got on really well,i got invited round hers a week later.two weeks ago,we went for something to eat,and to the cinema,when we were in the cinema,she said "do you mind if i put my haed on ue shoulder"i siad "no,not at all"the next thing,she was holding my hand.after the cinema she was asking me questions,one was "are you a player"i said "no,if i like someone i will only chase them,and no one else"the evening after,she invited me to hers,we watched a dvd,we started chatting,and she said "did you notice i wanted to kiss u new years eve"i said "yeah,i thought it was cus of the alcohol,so i didnt" and made a joke of it,she said "i wanted to kiss u last night,but i dont want you to think i am leading you on,cus i know u want to be with someone,and i dont" i said "i am ok being single,if something happens,it happens"she then kissed me,so i thought,sod it why not,lol,she then said "there is only one reason i wanna kiss you" and i know what she was talking about,thats when i froze.no idea why,nervous i guess.She has kinda figured me out,she said she cant tell i am shy,which i am when i first meet someone,well long story short,its all gone a bit,well,cold since,i have been over to watch dvd's two times since,but nothing has happened.This week she has been very odd,she keeps saying "i am glad ur ok,and happy"becuase the other day i said i couldnt sleep,and i think she thinks its cus of her,well now she seems down,and i asked yesterday whats wrong,she said she cant talk about it,then she said,she was off as she had a bridge to jump off of,i have spoke to her today and she seems better,am i missing something??
sorry its so long

thesmiff

I am inclined to agree,i just feel like she has come onto me,quite heavy,she made all the moves,and because i never gave into what she wanted,she has gone cold on me,i feel i have been shoved into the friends zone,she called me her "cuddle buddy" she also said that she thought i was "insecure" but i kinda feel she is.