Hey guys,

So I figured why not go and kiss some girls in clubs to make me feel better!

It's been a while so I have some questions:

1) Any advice on getting over this girl?

2) What do I say after initiating a conversation?

3) I made a challenge to myself that I'd approach a girl when I went out last night, I did and I could tell she was in to me and even initiated more conversation but I literally didn't know what to do or say then. We were on the dance floor but both her hands were full (drink & clutch bag - damn those clutch bags).

We were dancing facing each other then her friend came up and told me she was a hell of a girl, she asked me what she said and I told her (I then made a mega mistake) and said I agreed with her friend. Then some other people came up so I went and danced back with my friends, then realised her friends had dissapeared but she was still dancing near so I went back tapped her on the shoulder and asked if she was okay and where her friends had gone and made a joke that mine kept vanishing (yes another mistake!) suddenly a guy appeared from nowhere and they started hugging so I went back to my dancing group.

How could I have improved this situation? She did ask me where my drink was, so maybe I could of gone somewhere with this? Or should I have approached her friends first then gone over to her?

Thanks,

Sticks,

P.S.
How many girls should I approach on a night out? And how much do you guys drink on a night out?

sorry to hear about your breakup - remember no goodbyes are ever good.

Only advice I can give is set some future goals and keep yourself busy trying to meet them. This will stop you chasing your tail and getting caught up in getting emotional about the situation.

It really is the only solution to move on