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I understand. First of all let me tell you one thing. Whoever says to you that looks dont matter is a liar. Looks do matter but are not a deciding factor.
About 18 months ago i was showing 360 lbs on the scale and even though im 6ft4 i was FAT. The only situation i got response from girls was when i could make them laugh and giggle big time and even then i hardly ever got past a kiss on the cheek.
To be overly confident didnt seem to work for me when i was 360lbs because my bullshit insecurity shined through. I stopped trying, went to my physician and got VLCD. Trimmed my ass down to 235 with this diet within 7 months of starting, my confidence is top notch, im picking up girls like i was a taxi cab and all the theory i read on PUA started working when i got my shit together.
Im sorry if this wasnt what you wanted to hear and for writing such a huge piece of text but my point is if you can improve yourself in any way do it right now it will change your life drastically instead of trying and trying without any viable results.
Good Hunting!
Great story! Did things only start going your way when you reached your target weight? Did nothing else help(physically) when you were larger? Anything like certain kinds of shirts, pants, accessories? Was it still good for you to go out and approach people before you got your looks together? Or are you suggesting that I just stay in and hit the gym?
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