Hey there guys. After lurking on forums for a long time now and having a genuine interest in the PUA scene. Also due to splitting up from a six year relationship recently, I feel its time to get back into the swing of things in the "single male" scene.

I'm not on these boards to boost my notches on my bedpost or anything like that, I am after help and advice as to how to generally chat to females and help in closing the right one.

Case in point being the other week I was on a works xmas night out, and a girl I have liked for a while and who admits to liking me too (we have both been honest with each other about this, although she is due to get married in November) had the chance to kiss-close at the end of the night, but I didnt.
The day after we admitted to both wanting to seal the deal, but neither of us could. Funnily enough, during the course of that conversation we ending up having phone sex (work that one out) It seems that my plays are strong in some areas but not in others.

I am perfectly comfortable in speaking to females and have plenty of female friends, but the trouble lies in closing with someone I like. Any tips in where to look for this info, or indeed help from fellow posterw would be much appriciated

closing issues are a result of lack of sexual confidence. You need to get experience for confidence.