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PostPosted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 9:27 pm 
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Hey guys.

I'm 49 years old and newly single after almost 27 years of marriage. Now I'm looking to get all the sex I can from different women(because, God knows, I didn't get it when I was married) until my dick falls off, or before I take a chance on marriage again, whichever happens first.

That doesn't mean that I will disrespect women. I will be as honest as I can and tell them I am not interested in a relationship right now.

My problem is that while I am considered good looking for my age, and am tall and in pretty good shape, I find it difficult to approach women. I want younger women right now because there is a shortage of good looking women my age in the city I live in. But I have trouble meeting both. I can't seem to force myself to go up to them and start talking. Not a whole lot of self confidence, especially with younger women.

I'm looking to learn from the experts here, and I would like to know if I should use the same kind of material on middle aged women as I would on younger women. I think younger women are more into the bad boy type. But I could be wrong.

Nice to meet all of you and look forward to your correspondence.

Mock49


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Mock49 welcome to the forum! I just got divorced after 4 years of marriage and I'm doing what you are going to be doing! Like you said making up for years of lost sex. :)

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There are plenty of younger women that will appreciate an older man. Meet as many women as you can and you'll find the ones that are right for you. Work on your game, you meeting all those women will be much easier.

Good luck, and welcome to the forum.

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Mock49 welcome to the forum! I just got divorced after 4 years of marriage and I'm doing what you are going to be doing! Like you said making up for years of lost sex. :)
Thanks for the greeting. Yeah, 27 years of begging and pleading really sucked. I had some action when I was first separated, but lately things have dried up. I got on Match and found that the women I wanted didn't want me and the women I didn't want were always winking at and emailing me. Either I take a bad picture, or I'm not as great as I thought I was (naw, can't be!). So I figure I need to add some things to my arsenal to help me score, or at least get phone numbers that aren't the National Weather Service.

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There are plenty of younger women that will appreciate an older man. Meet as many women as you can and you'll find the ones that are right for you. Work on your game, you meeting all those women will be much easier.

Good luck, and welcome to the forum.

Thanks for the greeting.

Yeah, I just have to get out there and meet them. But I definitely need some game. I don't do very well when opening to them, especially if the bar is loud or I've had too much to drink. So I have had to cut back on the booze to keep my mind sharp.

I wish I was one of those people blessed with the gift of gab. Unfortunately, I have to really work at it.


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I wish I was one of those people blessed with the gift of gab. Unfortunately, I have to really work at it.
Less booze, more coffee. :wink:

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Welcome to the Forum Mock.

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Hey guys.

I'm 49 years old and newly single after almost 27 years of marriage. Now I'm looking to get all the sex I can from different women(because, God knows, I didn't get it when I was married) until my dick falls off, or before I take a chance on marriage again, whichever happens first.

That doesn't mean that I will disrespect women. I will be as honest as I can and tell them I am not interested in a relationship right now.

My problem is that while I am considered good looking for my age, and am tall and in pretty good shape, I find it difficult to approach women. I want younger women right now because there is a shortage of good looking women my age in the city I live in. But I have trouble meeting both. I can't seem to force myself to go up to them and start talking. Not a whole lot of self confidence, especially with younger women.

I'm looking to learn from the experts here, and I would like to know if I should use the same kind of material on middle aged women as I would on younger women. I think younger women are more into the bad boy type. But I could be wrong.

Nice to meet all of you and look forward to your correspondence.

Mock49
Welcome Mock.

46 here.

You should tailor your routine somewhat to the age group of your target.

For instance, if you're gaming a 21 y.o. a discussion about your Frank Sinatra collection probably isn't going to be very relative to her.

1st thing you need to do is improve your inner game, make sure your grooming, wardrobe and subcommunication (non-verbal com.) skills are up to par.

I'm gonna send you an email covering this in greater detail. It may help you understand what you need to do to get back into the game.

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