Hi. From Boston. Tepidly coming on because I want to improve all areas of my life - talking to women included.
I'm tall. Told I'm attractive (honestly don't see it myself). Told I'm funny and sweet (might be true). But all these things count for nothing since I seize up at the worst times.
Have had nothing really but heartache. I have about the lowest self esteem you'll ever find on someone (not entirely sure why).
Never had a real girlfriend.
Have had so many chances for happiness slip away because I didn't know how to talk to women. Every woman I've ever had strong feelings for have moved on with someone else (long term, marriage, kids, etc). I'm happy for them, but I can't be like this anymore.
My little brother started to use these techniques and now has a beautiful girlfriend (inside and out).
I truly want to change.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Self esteem is part of inner game. You have to start knowing that you are goodlooking. When can start knowing that you are good looking is the only time when you can actually start getting anywhere.

There are many resources out there and are many game routines but many of them are very closely linked with the confidence factor.

I know this because right up till my senior year I had terrible game and I always came up with excuses like "I have a minor acne breakout this week, ill approach her some other time" or similar appearance factors. I did this all the while I was told i was attractive by women who I thought were just saying things to make me happy.

A few years later and I am starting to realize that if you go into every interaction with the mindset that this girl WANTS you and everything she does shows that she WANTS you in some way or another, you will be massively more confident in conversations with women.

But Confidence is step 1

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I had that same condition with women. They said i was funny, i was cute, i was sweet... i was a jerk that's what they told me at the end. after i had already wasted all of my money on 1 single chick with her best friends included. You might have heard this "CARD YOU ARE A SWEET HEART, BUT I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WAY, OH COME GIVE ME A HUG' AND ALL I GOT WAS A GOOD BYE HUG. but nw i realize humour and sweetness are all afc qualities, you have to devlop whats called cocky humour for example-
"ME- So miss xyz give me your no. i'll give you misscalls late in the night.
She- That might not be a good idea.
Me- "you said 8832.. "
She smiled and gave me her number...
Thats what i have tested,, with confidence of course.. you can read my first feild report and maybe get an idea hw i proceeded ( and ofcourse give me some credit dude)..
Always a faithfull student .. CARD

good number close CARD, I find that for me I can say anything confidently the second time but the first time always takes wondering about weather or not it will work.

however, if you are good enough to put things out there properly then you can almost always get away with it.

I had a girlfriend last year who I just tested, tested, tested and tested her with random comments on whatever I could get away with and by the end of our 11 month relationship I now knew tons of things I can say to girls confidently that will work and not get rejected.

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"Always desire to learn something useful." - Sophocles