Hello everyone!

I'm a 20 year old male from Belgium. I admit to having lurked around this forum for a year and a half now, learning lots of things but never contributing.

I used to be in a really unhealthy relationship. Don't understand me wrong, I loved the girl until the end, but this was at the cost of all of my friendships and my freedom. At the end of 2010 I decided to finish this downward spiral.

I've had an amazing 2011. I started off by going to many parties and public places and trying many techniques I learned here. Surprisingly enough most of them, if not all, had merit in one way or another, though I quickly learned that this was making me feel incoherent with myself.

Then I started learning about natural game and inner game. I used NLP to bring out the things I liked about myself into the open while correcting the smallminded things I saw myself doing that were impeding my progress and were even pushing people away. I then realized my friends were greatly appreciating the improved me.

Recently I have been seeing this girl who has become my oneitis. Last week I threw a party for a selection of my best friends to thank them for the great year we had together. My girl was there as well, and using a flurry of virtually every technique that worked for me this year, I kissclosed. She is now my girlfriend.

The story does not end here. I will definitely spend a good deal of time with this girl, but there is always room for improvements. Every day I will do my best to be the best man I can be, and for the first time I feel like I can contribute to this forum.

Yeah there often the first to notice that you've changed and that's a confidence boosters, Continue that way!!.

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don't play girls, play with girls

gd work man

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