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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 3:12 pm 
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Hey guys,

I'm Asian (not that it matters?), engineering student and do have a night life on friday nights where i'm a nightclub promoter (Legal age being 18) so I'm basically there every week. I'd like to think I have quite a lot of friends in my circle that does have a good mix of guys/girls.

Problem.
[This is all about nightclub game]
I have absolutely no idea how to pick up girls, I would read these forum threads but I'd just fail with execution. Lets say I meet a girl, the ice is basically broken after we exchange names but I don't know how to successfully get any kind of close afterwards.
I have no problem with talking to girls, its the whole concept of closing (whether it be Number, Kiss or F) that I just fail at.

I need help. I don't even know what kind of questions to ask, that's how clueless I am right now. Hopefully you guys can help me clear up this dilemma.

Thanks!


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 9:41 pm 
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Your already coming at it from the wrong angle. In club game your not really asking questions or building rapport. Your showing value via confidence and SP and escalating. If you already have social proof, which is golden since your a promoter, you should have a very easy time of it given a gameplan. Another thing you have to realize is that with very young girls 18-22 they require less connection and more dominance. Girls develop a real personality later in life, which needs to be addressed then, but at a young age they will easily follow a powerful lead and never follow a weak lead.

you best bet is learning a basic gameplan for club game. For a nightclub situation I would start with Gambler, DDA approaching woman in bars and clubs, Gunwitch, or 60 years of challenge. All these guys talk about club game a lot, which is generally considered the most aggressive form of PUA. So you gonna need to be approaching chicks with a lot of confidence, attract, isolate, and escalate.
These forums are a great free resource, but trying to piece together a complete gameplan from this forums alone is gonna to be a very hit and miss process.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 1:17 am 
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Thanks a lot detox75, but could you explain to me what you mean by 'SP'? i couldn't find its definition in the 'terms of importance' thread :/


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 2:07 am 
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sp = social proof

you need to milk the fact that your a promoter for all its worth at the club and establish sp and status through your contacts, bartenders, servers, bouncers, dj's. Just being seen and esteemed by these people will get you 75% of the way into their pants. The other 25% is confidence, as you act if you hump hot chicks all the time.


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