Good Morning!

I'm Kisser. I live in San Francisco and teach PUA to D&D/computer nerds, lesbians, and genderqueers. Sometimes D&D/computer nerd, lesbians!!!

I myself was a D&D/computer nerd, genderqueer, until i decided to become a DJ (the sad truth is many DJs are just computer nerds who like music). I've been in the game since early 2002. While working as a DJ at a strip club i was waiting for one of my girls to give me her music and i over heard others talking about how to play games with dudes...

I thought, '...they do that on purpose?!?!" and later repeated it to my coworker at shift change. He just laughed and patted my shoulder like a wise older brother, "Yeah, they do.." Two days later he came in with Pimposiphy 101 he'd printed it off geocities for me and told me it would forever change how i see women.

He was right; it made me hate them. Understand that pimposiphy 101 is the manipulating of women to pay your bills. It's like PUA, but with no real value of women as people; they are strictly commodities. The process of devaluing and manipulating women, coupled with a few too many years in a strip club managing strippers, made me not trust any woman...EVER. Not myself. Not my mom. NONE. Sure, i was having lots of hot sex with strippers, go-go dancers, porn stars, and women i met in clubs with no intention of finding out their profession. Over the long term that wasn't a sustainable practice.

Over the last 7 years i've developed a natural game. Working with folks in the kink, sex positive, and tantra communities here in SF, i've taken a slightly more reflective practice. If women want to play games, we'll fucking play but i have a short attention span for it anymore; otherwise, i take my practice to apply to everyone.

My new practice is something like, I'm here to meet new and interesting people. Full Stop

We might have sex. We might stay up all night talking philosophy over bourbon. We might spend the day frying balls in the woods. It's really about a daily practice of not being afraid to meet people and interact with them casually; people want to be around that.

I still get laid a lot, but i know what people do for a living now. I also have a loving partner and we're planning to start a family in the next couple years.

I'm developing and teaching a class called Pick up arts for Sweethearts: how to approach and talk to strangers without being creepy. I focus on being positive and natural. It's about developing your personal, social skills and support to get you over the first, big, fear hump. It's definitely entry level, maybe even a half step into the game (some people only want to get in that far). Most of my friends are computer nerds with less social grace than most. I've been working with them and folks from the queer communities to tailor my content to what would be most useful for them.

I'm here to learn more and share best practices. I will say there seems to be a glaring omission of information about what the hell to do with women once you get them home. Pimposophy 101 focused heavily on your performance being critical to getting the girls to come back; with out it, your game has no clout. Did i miss that section here?

So there's the deets. Thanks for welcoming me to your community.
Peace
Kisser