Hmm, I guess in order to break with my current way of living an honest introduction is needed.

At 26 years of age I am at the interface of college (research) and corporate world. I have been told I have ok looks, but for untamable hair and bags under my eyes I often resemble a bum-ish. I have been reading this forum on an off for the past 4 to 5 years now, to be honest it was more off than on. So I guess you could rate my pua knowledge as “dabbling”.

I have never seen myself as the string of women kind of guy. I figured find someone you love and spend the rest of your life with her, this lead to a couple of interesting long term relationships. My current girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, it has been a rocky road so far and there appear quite a few mountains to climb on the horizon. One of the many rocks on our path is our sex-life or lack thereof. I always figured my sexdrive was just a bit too strong and I just had to suck it up, but my ‘new’ upstairs neighbor lets me” hear” that there is nothing wrong with a healthy sexdrive. It is these frequent confrontations (among other things) that have made me seriously reconsider ending my current relationship and my current ‘one women, LTR kind of guy’ approach to life.

So that is my current situation. Now I am hoping that 26 is not too old to old to change my ways.

Any feedback or advice on how and where to start is most welcome!
Z.