Hey my name is Joe, and I have never had any success with women. I am 27 years old, and I've only dated a handful of girls that I was attracted to. I would say objectively I am above average looking (if I had to rate myself I would say maybe a 7 [although that has not made me good with women and I often wonder what is going wrong]), I can be funny but I try not to overdo it, and am a fairly good conversationalist but definitely more laid back (not alpha male personality at all). I am picky, I would say very picky. I know I could have dated a lot more if I didn't only shoot for 9s and 10s, but that's ok. I have always refused to settle, and I don't regret that or apologize for it. Girls are way too much trouble (as in drama, possessiveness, time consuming, stupid arguments etc) to date someone that you are not really attracted to. But I could never land the dimes, so it's really frustrating. I am not looking for a relationship at all. I just want to be able to date beautiful women, have a good time, and make them attracted to me and want to have sex. I also have another challenge that I am going through that makes it even harder for me. For about 3 years, I think something is going wrong with my heart. My chest gets really tight when I walk around and even sitting sometimes. But at any rate I would like to learn what works with women and hopefully my health will get better. I am brand new to the forum and I see I have a lot of reading to do because I don't understand a lot of the lingo. I'm sure I'll have some questions in the near future. Feel free to message me with any advice for starting out. Thanks and nice to meet you all =)

-Joe

Heart problems? Get that checked QUICK. Not only for your own health, but also, because you'll probably need to have some energy for going out to pick up women.

The advice I can give you is to read, practice, and ask. Nothing beats that. A lot of guys tend to ignore the practice part, but that's just plain stupid.

Having high standards is good, but you may want to tone it down until you develop some solid game. After all, you don't want to date any of those women, so having sex should be good enough.

This may help: http://www.bosproject.com/index.php?tid=joe01

Good luck and welcome to the forum Joe.

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Hey thanks for the reply =) I haven't been on in a while; thanks for taking the time to reply. Yeah I've had two cardiologists and been to the ER twice and they can't seem to figure out whats wrong other than I have an irregular heartbeat. Yeah I've pretty much not pursued anyone for the past 3 years because of my condition. I can barely walk around without my chest getting real tight, so I feel like I don't really have anything to offer a girl right now but I'm hoping it will get better and I want to learn what works and what doesn't with the ladies so if and when that happens I'll have some idea of what to do. As far as the last part, yeah I guess I've just been spoiled by porn because there's so many beautiful girls to look at that I don't even have a desire to have sex with a girl that isn't pretty damn hot, you know? And even before my health problems I just wasn't good at getting 8s and above. I guess I just didn't (don't) have the game for it. But that's why I'm here I want to learn. I was always the nice guy, giving compliments and I was never good at hiding the fact that I liked a girl (think I showed too much interest too early usually).

dude for ur heart problem i suggest consult a doctor (and as 'bansario' said: get that checked quick) and ask if u can workout. If doc says yes, then by all means start working out asap. At least start with brisk walking.

If ur a smoker id say toss the smokes. I was a chain smoker for about 3 years then quit cold turkey style. wasnt too hard! ive been smoke free for 1 year now. plus some ladies dun like it when u smoke.

Anyways joe, when ur pickin up girls i think u gotta have a positive energy and portray a positive and fun image of ur self... u kno, all that crap. So working out and joining some sorta sport does help somewhat boost ur confidence and positive spirit.

Keep active and welcome to the forum buddy!

thanks =)