I have been poking around PuA forums on and off for some time. I gathered a few tidbits here and there about kino, push/pull games and a couple other techniques. I will admit a lot of them worked just fine for what I wanted although I never got laid.

I really didn't go to the bar or pursue relationships with women because I couldn't be bothered. A couple months ago however, I was over seas, I live in Canada and had gone to Ireland. I met this blonde at a bar and one of the people I was with told me to try and pick her up. She was WAYYY the fuck out of my league from where I was standing. I was wearing white gangster/stoner clothing and she was wearing an expensive skinny white dress. Despite this I effectively used PuA techniques, started kino and ended almost taking her back to the hotel with me.

Fast forward a couple, after a few visits to the bar I am getting better at hitting on women. My confidence levels had dropped quickly after the Ireland incident.

Two weeks ago I started talking to an old friend over facebook. It got fairly sexual early on, we hooked up last week and she stayed over a couple times. She wanted to be friends with benefits but because I barely knew her I lied about a lot of things. Now she is moving away with some other guy and I have no way of keeping her. (This all happened in 3 weeks time)


That is my sob story. I have pretty much gotten over her and decided to really move on I need to find someone new. I opened an account here to learn some PuA techniques to apply them at the bar this weekend coming up (going with several groups of mixed friends).