Ok - I'm married - found my wife after five years of being a PUA. We have an open relationship - but our friends dont know that. None of that is too important though.

A friend of my wifes acts really odd with me. I almost wonder if she's gaming me...

The Facebook "Acknowledgement"
Sometimes she texts me, I reply and she sends nothing back - but she 'likes' a photo of mine or something on Facebook a few minutes after or posts something on my wall. So my questions don't get answered but...

We text fairly often as we all hang out a lot, and sometimes she will send me a flirty text - such as "hey dude - my boyfriend can't make tonight after all, so its just you and me if your still up for it?!"

That sounds like an IOI to me. So, no confusion there.

What confuses me is sometimes she will send me a long text - with lots of questions.

As a guy I would NEVER write a text like that - too many questions.

So, I reply with something like nice and short.

Sometimes I get a reply - but hours later. Other times she doesn't reply at all which pisses me off. I told my wife who was a bit surprised but not bothered.

So I thought I would try an experiment and reply hours later, like she does. I swear every time I do that - she is really off with me when we next meet up.

Same with email - sometimes she will email me - I will reply (always short) and she takes hours to reply or doesn't at all.

Now - me and my wife have discussed this and she tends to get texts straight back from this woman!

Case in point - this friend is away on a business trip abroad. Asks us to check on her apartment whilst she is away. So, my wife checks and sends a Facebook message - gets a reply. I send on saying 'Hey, checked on your plants - everything is cool? Are you doing ok?"

Guess what - no reply!

In terms of the woman herself - I'm not too bothered about bagging her although my wife has no problems with that - but I am caught up by her text / Facebook weirdness!