Hi,

I went to London in February - after being for years inactive due to relationship. Had wild times for years in Germany as well. Had never heard about PUA - it is not so common in Germany.

Being here, I started to entertain myself with picking-up girls. And it went so extraordinary good, that I was very astounded about my "abilities". Not a single "target" was approached unsuccessful. And this with my far from perfect English. My little black book filled up so extremely fast, that I had my fun everyday. When I went out, I was chased - and I even had to defend myself several times.

I was starting to think, what happens to me - and I found out, that I was using NLP without even knowing about. At one point I had a three digit number of girls wanting to meet me. That was, when I started to check, what has happened.

Went through some really tough times before I came here, that made my more serious. Maybe my style of viewing at girls had changed too. Interesting: The girls saw me as a dominant man, which may be related to my style of viewing at them.

My main problem was the attachment. Once in bed or elsewhere, the girls fell in so called love with me. That was going in the wrong direction...

In July I met a girl, which was a nearby professional dater. She was fighting hard and playing quite intense and really good. She was laughing about PUA, but after a time, she confessed, that I was different from everything she ever experienced, because - as she said - I was going directly in her mind, being able to remote control her.

She is the type of girl, every man would like to approach, but only the best would even try. And she knows all strategies, all tricks and was often used by PUA-Experts for showing their followers, how it would work. But with no success. The Reason: She read all the books and trained her skills regulary.

We are now a couple - and I must say, that I am somehow happy, that this phase came to an end, but the interest in what I have done and why it is happening still every time I go out, is still there.

Hope to find some answers here...