Hi chaps, newbie from Nottingham here.

I'm 41, "young for my age" (people usually guess me 33, 34, 36) recently split with my wife, and looking about thinking most 40-ish women don't really appeal to me. I'm not looking to find some 18 year old or whatever (although, should the opportunity present itself...) I'm just looking to be able to get myself in with the kind of women I seemed to have no problem pulling when I was last single, er, that was more than a decade ago... Now the competition for those women is tougher as its coming from younger more confident guys.

So reasonable target set: attractive women, aged say 28-35, witty, fun, smart...

I'm looking to have a bit of fun, then find someone to settle down with, so I have a long game and a short game if you see my meaning.

I just started reading "the rules of the game" and was recommended to come here by a friend.

That's me. Wish me luck. Happy hunting to the rest of you