Hello fellas,

It was encouraged I post here to begin with, and I have a few questions already.
I'll start with a bit about myself.

My name's Adrian (yet to think of an alias for PUA), and I'm a student currently studying at university in Ottawa, Canada. I'm 19 years old, and am in no way a veteran of sexual endeavours, however I have had success in the past.

Whilst I am new to the community, and I am still learning methods and terminology, I have recognized a few major areas I understand need attention in order to bring my game up, or get any game to begin with.

I have read Neil Strauss' The Game, and am in the process of reading The Mystery Method, and have been fascinated by the stories of success, among of course, all the tales of failure, etc etc.

I recognize that in order to become someone that women will desire to be with, one must be attractive (my current focus is creating a physical attraction). I've got a typical somewhat stalky Italian build; I'm 5'9" and approx. 174lbs. So, I'm a little on the heavy side. I've been a social smoker for the past couple years, and have not frequented the gym in quite some time. I'm sure some women out there dig some belly, but I'd like to figure out a realistic routine which can get me headed in a direction which will benefit my personal health; turn body fat into muscle mass, which in return will result in a more confident "me", thus upping personal value.

Not necessarily in the field, or while running game, but speaking generally, I hit a bit of a rough patch when it comes to sexual experience and escalating a sexual situation. Obviously, some girls are easier to read than others; some are more forward than others. My main worry or fear is that my lack of experience will result in a poor sexual experience with an experienced woman, and as a result worrying about performance etc etc.

*Regarding the issue above, I will be posting a topic in the Social Shyness & Anxiety forum, which I will add a link to this thread if you wish to assist me.


So yeah, a little more about how I got into the game... A friend of mine once had an issue with confidence and approaching the opposite sex, and recommended I read "The Mystery Method".

Unfortunately I have not had much practise in methods/routines. I am familiar with basic openers, such as the jealous girlfriend routine, and the cologne routine (few of many thousand, I know).

I myself am a musician and an entertainer; I have skill both playing and singing. I can hold a captive audience and be comical (most of the time it's luck, I would like to incorporate humour in routines, of course).

Looking forward to getting started in this exciting world.

Cheers!