Hey, 42 from London.

Joining at a time when my confidence is at an all time low and trying to find a path back to how I used to be.

Whilst I have never been prolific I have never struggled!

Met someone at work 6 months ago, we became close friends and everyone thought something had, would, should happen, and I guess I just thought it would develop. It did not!

For some reason I cant pick myself up and move forward. Have tried and have hooked up on Tinder etc but find that every time I start to enjoy things she pops into my head and well I guess we all know how that gets to you.

Anyway sorry to depress the hell out of you, as I said I need to regain my confidence and move forward so I joined to look for things that can help with that.

youre story isnt depressing we can all relate to that story

i'm assuming you have no contact with her? please tell me you dont work with her anymore and you have no ties with her.

if so cut them immediately
working out is a great way to get over someone because
1. it keeps you active and focus
2. you get more in shape
3. that will build your confidence
4. make you look better for the next girl

I moved to las vegas when i broke up with my girlfriend to change my life lol
not that i HAD TO it was just one of the MANY reasons cause it was an on/off relationship.
it was more to "start over" and better

you definitely dont need to move across the country to get over her. i'm just crazy and wanted to live in a nightclub, and a slutty city

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Hey man, your story isn't depressing, it's actually a place where most of us were at some point. It can be a
source of strength if you use it as motivation.

If your confidence is at the low point, then start there. Start with yourself, with building your confidence.

I don't know which challenges you're experiencing specifically, but if you'd like, I can help you out personally.

In my signature there is a link for a free test group I'm doing with a new confidence building process. I want to
warmly invite you to it, as this could be the jump-start you need to make this new transition.

But in any case, welcome to the club, we'll take care of you here

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