My name is George. I am 19 and i am from Bucharest, Romania. My gf just ended our 2.5 years relationship and i said to myself i would just have fun with all the girls i'll want to.
I'm nothing special, a little bit overweight (1.80 m, 90kg) but i also have muscle and i look like i would be 70, so it's not sesizable, cool green eyes and the 2-3 weeks beard looks really good. I also look like i am older, because of the beard.

I knew about pua, but now i don't remember too much. I am basically here for checking out other people's routines and for some kind of opener. But, if i get a girls attention, i can handle from there.

I'll get back in the game as soon as i find a good place to start. Until then, i will just read theory here. I'll also wait 2 weeks from now until i'll have sex, in case my ex sees what she's making.

I was with you up to this point. Why?

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I thought that's some fair time to wait, to see how things will be between me and her.
Talked to an older ex i ended some sort of good friends with and she helped me a lot to get over this thing. She also advised me to lose that bellyfat. Started jogging 2x a day and basic home exercises(squats,pull ups,pushups ,crunches and others)
Also, I work as a promoter and i get to talk to anyone i find in the supermarket. Next promotion will start tomorrow and i think i'll give a few shots there. But since the promotion is for man cosmetics, i will probably try my luck with the girls who represent other brands.

PS : Me and my ex both enjoy each other's friendships and we will try to see how things go as friends, but we have to promise eachother that we'll not be jealous, no matter what.

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Then there is no reason to wait.

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Its too soon.

You're being a "nice guy" and you'll get the shorter end of the stick because of it. Stop being nice. The relationship is done. She wants to hold onto the emotional support you provide all while denying you the physical gratification so she can feel secure enough to move on once she meets someone better.

The odds are she has already met someone else, but just wants you to fall back on if things don't go well. Cut the contact, stop being such a nice guy and move on. Waiting around to see if.. Never gets you a damn thing.

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Its too soon.

You're being a "nice guy" and you'll get the shorter end of the stick because of it. Stop being nice. The relationship is done. She wants to hold onto the emotional support you provide all while denying you the physical gratification so she can feel secure enough to move on once she meets someone better.

The odds are she has already met someone else, but just wants you to fall back on if things don't go well. Cut the contact, stop being such a nice guy and move on. Waiting around to see if.. Never gets you a damn thing.

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Well, hello again, it was some time since that, i hope there's no problem if i keep posting here.

So i ended in "good relationships" with my ex. We decided to stay friends with the rules : We don't get jealous on eachother, no matter wha0,t and if we ever feel like hooking up, we don't, and i am perfectly fine with these rules(i proposed them).
Lately, I worked a lot because i need to have a lot of money for this sumer and i didn't have too much time for dating. So now i want to date 3 girls
A - 7 - a 20yo blondie from the supermarket i worked last week
B - 7 - a 20yo girl i knew before, she always seemed to be attracted to me
C - 9 - an 18 yo ex of mine, super hot & pretty dumb (tried to get back with me several times, but didn't accept as i was with my ex i currently broke up with)

Yesterday i took A out, she was really pissed on her ex and i asked her to join me and my friends to watch the football game. She really enjoyed getting out. I am holding her in the friendzone until for now.

Today i planed to meet B at 7pm and C at 9pm(couldn't push more) both in the same park. My plan was to send B at home at 8:30, go home, change in running clothes and meet C.
I made out with B and we are currently dating. Unfortunately, i droped her off in the bus station at 9:15, checked my phone and saw 8 missed calls from C. She waited me to the place we agreed to meet, went back home, took her rollerblades and went alone. Luckly, i called her, made up an excuse, i told her i will make up for this and she actually was happy i called her, she wasn't mad at all (guess this is fool's luck).
I the next days, i think i will take B to the swiming pool and to the club, i tried to touch her boobs, but she said that's a little too much for first date.

I'm not going to lie. My game with B was really bad but i got lucky, again, because she liked me anyway. Also, my pick up skills are really bad, altought i have chances with all 3 girls, i basically picked up only one and that one isn't fully aware of my intentions with her.

My uncle gave me some advices on the phone
1.Never plan two dates on the same day, you never know how you won't be able to get to the second date.
2.Date only one girl at a time, with facebook check-ins it's easier for them to find out about each other.
3.After having sex, try as much as possible to make it look like the relationship is not going to work out instead of simply abandoning her.

So, in the end, i clearely have A LOT of things to learn. Do you guys have any particular advices/rules i'm not aware of ?

There's nothing wrong being a nice guy, as long as you respect yourself and you don't let anybody put their need before yours.

Also, sorry to break this to you but jealousy, like attraction, is not something you control. You can learn to deal with it, but you cannot shut it down.

And there's some nasty vibe in your message. When you write "made up an excuse" or "make it look like the relationship is not going to work" you sound like you won't mind lying or severly manipulating to get to your end. And somehow reading that I have big doubt that you really are or were a "nice guy."

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I really consider myself a nice guy, probably my chaotic writing style got you thinking that. Broke the conection with that girl i was dating, i got to the conclusion that it's not worth to waste time for a lay (i had to wait for a moment to have my house "free" - i live with mom , dad, my grandmother and my 6 yo unpredictible brother who just started the summer break and the only moments i could take someone home is saturday/sunday from 9AM to 4-5PM -- )

Didn't do much with the other girls, been busy with work.

Something really awesome happened today at work, i saw a 10 and she was so out of my league i said. Luckly, i read in the morning from this article mid-game/topic40419.html so the chat went like this (i am having a promotion on men cosmetics)

The chat was something like this :
Me : Hello i present you our promotions, bla bla (looking deep in her eyes the whole time)
Her : Sorry, but i am not a man and neither do i have a boyfriend to give the things as a present ( in a playfull voice)
Me : Ok, thank you ( i bailed out, didn't had the guts to tell her the real reason)

After that i told this to my other colleague who was there with me (we are the same age, went to the same highschool, he's one of the guys who had most lays in the highschool) so we spent the next few moments stalking the girl saying how hot is she ( she didn't noticed us).
I told him : If she comes near again ( she was going away) i will deffinetly aproach her.
Him : Well , here she comes.

So i knew in that moment, i had to go to her and talk to her, how bad could it turn out ?

Me : Hey, you know, the real reason i told you about the promotion was because i think you are really cute and (i remembered at this point that i should not compliment her aspect, but her attitude) i really like your .... ( looked at her, she had a hat and on the hat she had a pair of interestng glasses) .... glasses (lame, right ?)
Her : Thank you, you are also really cute and i like a lot your eyes (deep green/blue, depending on the light)
so she told me about her glasses a little, told me she's is a model&make up artist and that she is just passing by in the city, as she will leave in a few hours to go and shoot a commercial for mercedes benz (at this point, i was like ... wtf do i do now, she is so out of my league..
luckly, i wanted to buy a hat for days but i was not sure if it really looks good on me and as she was into fashion i could at least get her opinion
So i took her, put the hat on my head (had it chosen for a few days and i used it as an opener on other girls before too, so i knew it kind of fits me), i chated with her a little longer, she told me she had recently took her psichology licence and i was like ... awesome , do you know the cube game ?
So i performed the cube routine on her, she was amazed of how much i got right on her.(in the begining, after she told me i'm cute, i tried to take her out after work, she told me she will leave soon, asked for her number, she told me some excuse why she can't give it to me, something like it's just for work, i don't remember but she said from the start her facebook name)
I told her that i have to get back to work, asked for her facebook again as i didn't add her straight way and forgot her full name.

Me : Ok, thank you , good bye
Her : See you soon, ***** ! (my name)

PS : When doing the cube routine she got a little skeptical when i asked her to imagine things :
her : do i have to give you any numbers ?
me : Well , i know for sure i would give you a few numbers ( in romanian to give a number to someone also means to give a sex round, if that's how would it be called)
her :(stoped smiling, backed off) i see you turn out into a pervert
me : no , wait , that was just a joke, couldn't hold myself
and i got her back paying attention

she added me on facebook a few hours later, and i sent her a message when i saw that she added me (a few hours after she added me)

Hey, If you pass by again and got nothing to do, leave me a message

that was all, didn't expect her to give me much of a reply.
30 minutes after, she answered me,sending a bunch of pictures and videos of her making funy faces and we talked for a few hours, she even washed her face so she can stay awake because she was tired, but didn't want to leave the conversation. she told me i really made her day really good because she wouldn't except such a handsome guy to make her compliment.

asked her out to show her a really beautifull park from bucharest the next time she comes here, which i know as good as my palm. She said she will deffinetly will and will try her best to make time for me. btw: turns out she is also 19yo

This experience got me really happy, because i am more confident that i have a shot on the really hot girls.

Monday i will go to a water park and i asked out two hot girls i've met at work(not as hot as to the one i talked in this post, but still really hot) to join me and my friends ( in a playfull way) and they both agreed (the 2 girls don't know each other). Maybe i will get lucky with any of them. Don't know, all i care is to have a good time there with my friends.

I would definitely ditch your uncle. That is one worse advice after the other. It's all predictable and what every guy would do. What are you doing man? Being a puss man? You can't be half man half puss.

1. ALWAYS plan two dates on the same day, you'll get to look harder to get and less needy. You won't "hope" for something to happen, but you'll be the one looking at your watch ready to go.

One of the most attractive qualities to a woman is a man who has something to do. Places to go. Things to see. When you know you have a date after your first one, you're one of those guys.

2. ALWAYS date more than one girl. But don't me a man-bitch about it, be open and frank about it. Don't promise a long term relationship to a girl if you're not in it. Be frank about your intentions from the start.

3. O I love this one. Try to make it as if it's not going to work after sex? Are you kidding?

What kind of bitch-man advice is this?

BEFORE you have sex with a girl, get some balls and tell her: "There is something you need to know. I like you and love spending time with you, but I am not in a position in my life where I want to commit to a relationship. I'm at a point where I want to have fun and meet people... But I still like you, and would like to see you more, but if that's not OK with you, I'll understand."

BAM.

Now you have just increased her attraction for you because you're such a DUDE who isn't a bitch-man, hiding his intentions.

You'll be surprised at how strong and flexible women are, as long as you don't try to scheme them.

Women hate DISHONESTY. It's so rare with guys, that if you can stand up and tell her the truth, she'll gain a whole new level of respect for you.

Sorry to spill your hope-beans for you, but my friend - man up. You got it in you, that's why you're here.

Don't settle. You're more than this.

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Great advices, i'll deffinetly keep them in mind. Thank you !