Hi, My name is Nick and i am 26. I was introduced to the forum by one of my friends.
I am a student and am brand new when it comes to socializing with opposite sex. I have spent most of my life in school and on computer games and magic. I didn't start to realize all the complicated strategic moves behind the dating until now.
The self motivation that drives me out of my comfort zone is the moment I realized how much i have missed in my lifetime after I reached out and started to join in activities with complete strangers. I enjoyed the moment i spent with the girl I like and I would like to keep that feeling last longer and genuinely hope that she have a good time with me.
Night now, i am at the step learning all the texting games and dating rules from youtube and the forum.
The biggest issue for me right now is i dont know how to flirt with a girl, needless to say physical contact. I always have this preoccupation that she would dislike me or think i am creepy for doing so. My fear stops me from doing so, thus end up talking bout things i am not genuinely interested in just to keep the conversation going. Then I get the feeling that i might be a boring guy in front of girls. After all, i dont really have any hobbies besides computer games and magic, maybe movies.
Is there a way for me to figure out how to bring up something interesting naturally or getting intimate with a girl on the date in a sexual way?

Welcome to the forum. Pretty much all of us here want you to have success in reaching your goals with women. You can learn a lot from many of the guys here, but stay true to what you want out of this. We can be a tough crowd sometimes, so don't take things personally if you read something that you really don't like.

As for you, it looks like once you get out of your comfort zone...you'll do well. Just have fun with women and the rest will start to come naturally.

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