Hello fellow AFC/PUA's,

I have just finished reading The Game by Neil Strauss after being recommended by a old friend of mine who has recently transformed his dating life. His words were " Read the game by Neil Strauss". I had told him of my frustrating sexual life and my recent draught of several years that needed to be addressed. I suffer low self esteem and telling people about my sexual draught of several years takes a lot of my courage.

My last few years have be horrid.. any attempt to get girls into conversations while out partying have been a dismal display often desperate and cringeworthy to myself. I do not have a lot of confidence with women but i can generally hold a conversation with one if i need to.

My problem is i have found Im currently getting so used to not getting any sex or anything from females Im starting to get too used to it...

Im in my early twenties and when i was 16 i lost my virginity to a prostitute after a drunken night with my friend.
I was told by my friend that if i had sex with a female it would automatically make me more confident towards women and i would appear Alpha without even attempting it. He was wrong..

this followed years of failed attempts of tuning girls and women even one night getting a girl into bed (not a hooker)
and not being able to get my penis erect enough due to the anxiety of the situation. this was the last time i had a girl in my bed next to me.. it has almost been 4 years.

After reading the game i learnt that my previous tactics were indeed very similar to the ones used by PUA's in fact i had learnt about very basic game and how to use reverse psychology to manipulate a target.

I have been active on the nightclub and party scene for about 2 years now and am still yet to get a number or bring a girl home..

now i'm here. a AFC planning to learn a lot about himself and others to gratify what i believe i deserve in this world..
I have no plan to become a master of seduction yet as i'm simply here to learn how to speak to women face to face and start to make up for all the years of sexual frustration i have caused myself. looking forward to learning and sharing my experiences to anyone else in the community in a similar situation.

I will be actively going out and 'sarging' so i will be sure to leave behind my experiences here in the forum for others to read about.

for now this is all,

Snipars

Welcome. Please don't joint the gamey chodes you'll see all over you tube with their body language stances and zero calibration and zero sexuality and 100% cloned fakeness. That is all. Enjoy it brother. Be real. Be you. Be genuine. Women love a real genuine dude who has his shit together and isn't afraid to be playfully confident with them.