Hello to all of the Pick Up Artist Forum Community. I am a 27 year old male specimen, that is currently struggling to find out a girlfriend, currently residing in Denmark, originally from Bulgaria. I have had some issues with approaching females, so having a university degree and a method of easily reading through literature I've spent some time hovering my head over some classical books in the PUA literature - f.x. Neil Strauss, Richard La Ruina, Mystery's books etc... to enhance my lack of socializing with women skills. I will like to add that I am an engineer ( good with numbers, bad with women - as the joke goes )... And from I've found out of self-improvement etc... I have a bit of anxiety in approaching women, also experience neediness and as a whole have a problem with my "game" if I can put it in other words. I've got some friends, who are born naturals and I can see they've got everything in their arsenal to hook up/ go out with women, but what I would just like to figure out is how to find a way out of the anxiety issue and the neediness...

Thank you in advance fellas!

Observe your anxiety. Then deny it any power over you. You're approaching women not disarming a bomb.

I guess my anxiety will decrease as I start doing more and more "general" approaches - F.x. the "Hi" challenge that is written in one of the other sections of the forum, but what about the neediness ? How does a person get rid of that ?

By having lots of options in your dating life. This will come naturally as your skills improve: eventually you lose your neediness and in the process become even more attractive to women.

Thanks for the replies and guidance, I did the "Hi" challenge... Not like 100%, but I just went out in the city that I am currently and said "Hi" to most of the girls that I had eye-contact with... According to statistics I have 87% Hi-back success rate... I will search for some "general" openers so I can transition the game a little bit... And thanks again!