Hello guys,
I am a 19 year old guy from the Netherlands. And I am new to the pick up community. I discovered this community by reading a book called the game and ive seen some RSD videos in the past.

I always was an insecure kid with not that many friends in my life. I always had a sense there was something different about me. And at the age of 13 I was diagnosed with PDD-NOS(light form of autism) and ADD. This diagnose made me even more insecure instead of helping me. But luckily at the age of 16 I started lifting weights, I was very passionate about that and it even gave me some lifting buddys. And thats the time my life started to change, I met friend who went to Techno partys all of the time using drugs and going hard the whole weekend. I started to join them. After a while I even met some girls and had sex with them. But after a while I realised I was neglecting every other part of my life(like school, work, gym, family). So I decided to stop using drugs and partying every week. And I started to focus on really building a future, so I had to work on my self-esteem, get a job and be more dedicated in the gym.

Now I am at a point Im starting to get my life thogeter and the only thing missing are girls to share my love with. Since I stopped partying for good reasons, I would like to focus on daygame.(maybe go out clubbing once in a while but not that much)

My goals are:
To get good enough to pick up girls I really like and still maintain a healty lifestyle without clubbing much and using drugs. I dont like the idea of using planned openers and pickup lines, I like the more recent RSD-stuff when it comes to game. So I will be focusing on getting `natural` at pick up.

I will report my progress on this forum and ask for tips when I need them. Another thing Im looking for is someone near Amsterdam to be my wing. Although I dont know if there are any Dutch PUA on this forum.

P.S. Sorry for my bad English