Hi.

I’m new here so I thought it would be right to introduce me. So who am I? Well I’m a 36 year old loner living in Norway. I’m generally considered shy and an introvert and I tend to agree with this even though I have my extrovert moments. I have never been in a serious relationship and have not had any action for a long, long time. But I’m looking to change that now.

For a long time that was my biggest problem, unwillingness to change. In my “old” days I didn’t like what I back then called “players” and considered them frauds who only told women what they wanted to hear. So I definitely didn’t want to be like them. It was part jealousy because I never got hot girls, part prejudice and part truth (well some men are fraud but not as many as I thought). I decided to just “be myself”. But when I was out there trying I had no idea really what I was doing and had no idea how the Game worked. Well, after a lot of disappointments I got to a point sometime back that I called it quits. Me and women simply did not go together. I knew some of the reasons why and they were inside me; lack of confidence, nervousness, getting overexcited when something was actually going well and lastly, my stubbornness in that I didn’t think I needed to change. Well at least I have gotten to the point now that I realize what I was doing wasn’t working so I have to change.

How did I get here? I stumbled upon the Neil Strauss book last week and since then I have been watching some youtube videos and now here I am. I’m looking to take this thing seriously because at my age I’m starting to think it’s now or never. I keep a diary of what I’m doing every day to improve my Game and am now actively looking for the products out there that would suit me best.

What am I looking for? Excitement. The thrill of being out there again and feeling alive. To be more precise I want to be able to approach a woman in a set and open it and not feel very uncomfortable about it. I want to be able to keep the conversation going without feeling it’s labored and awkward. I want to understand what women want it read their subtle cues. I want to get a phone number in a bar. I want to date again. I want to have a friend with benefits. Eventually I want to find a great woman to share my life with.

Well I think that does it for an introduction. I’m really excited about having found this website!

PS. If anybody relates to this and has been in a similar situation or is in a similar situation don’t hesitate to PM me.

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