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Oddy
 Post subject: Helo my name is Oddy! :)
PostPosted: Wed Aug 19, 2015 8:08 pm 
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Helo there everyone.

My name is, well lets keep it at Oddy for now.
Im 26 years old and work as a soldier...yeh its a real job. :)
I come from slovenia, more exactly Ljubljana.
I started to look for new things to do and for new hobbies 1 month ago, when i broke up with my GF (lame i know) and one of those things was, geting girls to like me or atleast that i could recognise the singhs that they saw me as an attractive man. So a friend recommended a book to me, every man should read, The Game...and as i read it and still am reading it, i got totaly in to it and never tougth it was so much work and preparations for someone to actualy aproach a woman and seduce her! Thats why i joined this forum and will try to make the best of it!
I never actualy practised and studyed any of the pickup art and want to learn atleast basics from you guys!
My goals here and actualy anywhere are to pick up girls obviusly. :)
I would like to get help with that becous i dont know how to start or were or what to say...you get the picture!


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Bad english, pleas dont be hating! ><
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 20, 2015 2:54 am 
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Hey Oddy welcome, any questions, ask away. Go out, be chatty/flirty, have a good time, invite a girl to hang out with you, don't behave in a manner that you're trying to be the girl's bff.
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Helo there oceanx! Thank you for your reply.
So if i understand it corectly, i should jut go out and start chating/flirting with girls i like?
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Yes sir. They enjoy it. Just be playful and lighthearted. Don't put your heart on the line, and don't put your hopes in to any one girl or she will smell desperation.
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 20, 2015 6:46 am 
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Ok! I got that, even before i read books and forums:)! But i get a problem when i get to it and start chating and like 10min into converatin i cant find anything interesting to say...and then i just stand there and be like what to say now and its probably a turnoff! And just becous of that i get low confidence and its a closed cicle. So the problem is how to get her attention and sometimes i cant even steep in and start talking.

Ps.: hope i wrote atleast some sence...:)
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Ok well if you're going for #s and not instant dates, then 10 minutes is way more than you need any way. A girl knows within 2 seconds if she finds you attractive and from there, if her answer in her mind is no, it's an uphill battle which can be done but on the other hand if her answer in her mind is yes then all you have to do is not fuck it up.

Which means, if you can sense she's vibing with you from the start, just flirt and banter with her for a few mins; exchange some personal details about eachother, and then get her # when you are on a high point in the conversation. Then exit and tell her that you will get back w/ her.
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Ok i understand. But the thing is i dont even know what i want, prob flirting and get girls. Actualy what i want is some sistemactic help or program how to walk to a girl and just try to hookup:). Not for long tearm, just some fun time.
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 20, 2015 8:07 am 
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Here's something on that subject that I had previously posted..
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I cannot stress enough to try approaching indirect. You will get blown out of MUCH less sets if you go indirect. Putting yourself in the girls' shoes, going direct takes all the mystery out of the equation (you Tell her you like her right from the start; she doesn't have to 'work' to gain your 'approval') and makes it a bit uncomfortable that you are overtly stating your intentions right from the start. By indirect i am not referring to opinion openers but rather situational openers. These let you and the girl get into a nice convo & feel eachother's vibe out before you decide whether you want to take the #. Communicating an undercurrent of smoothness/a sexy vibe is important so she picks up on your intentions nonverbally. Kino is also important. For example, you're outside, "hey check this out, look @ that cloud, cool huh?" I know that looks like a lame opener but if delivered with the subcommunication I described above it can cause the girl to swoon. You can literally say ANYTHING when going indirect and if it's delivered with smoothness the girl is way more often than not 100% open to a convo. From there, ask about her, tell her a little about yourself, give a light DHV if you can, and close for the #. Give her a hug b/c you have to run and get back to your busy life. Speak with her as though you are speaking with your g/f.
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 20, 2015 8:53 am 
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Ok this mihgt sound stupid, but what does DHV actualy look like? I mean high value, can i get an exsample plz?:)
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Here's something on that subject that I had previously posted..
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I cannot stress enough to try approaching indirect. You will get blown out of MUCH less sets if you go indirect. Putting yourself in the girls' shoes, going direct takes all the mystery out of the equation (you Tell her you like her right from the start; she doesn't have to 'work' to gain your 'approval') and makes it a bit uncomfortable that you are overtly stating your intentions right from the start. By indirect i am not referring to opinion openers but rather situational openers. These let you and the girl get into a nice convo & feel eachother's vibe out before you decide whether you want to take the #. Communicating an undercurrent of smoothness/a sexy vibe is important so she picks up on your intentions nonverbally. Kino is also important. For example, you're outside, "hey check this out, look @ that cloud, cool huh?" I know that looks like a lame opener but if delivered with the subcommunication I described above it can cause the girl to swoon. You can literally say ANYTHING when going indirect and if it's delivered with smoothness the girl is way more often than not 100% open to a convo. From there, ask about her, tell her a little about yourself, give a light DHV if you can, and close for the #. Give her a hug b/c you have to run and get back to your busy life. Speak with her as though you are speaking with your g/f.
Complete and utter bullshit. This is what women REALLY think of men who are direct:

http://www.girlsaskguys.com/girls-behav ... direct-men

Read Mode One and Oooooh... Say It Again by Alan Roger Currie. Also read books from the 'Letters to Penthouse' series (any one of them will do), all of which are allegedly real life erotic stories written by WOMEN. All that shit is way too complicated and for pussies.

The lyrics to this song are more or less what you should be saying as a direct man, at least as an example:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6QbwZq3pGs
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And this is what Kesha thinks about your beat around the bush pussy techniques, boys:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTXMkzIFHJM
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Ok this mihgt sound stupid, but what does DHV actualy look like? I mean high value, can i get an exsample plz?:)
It's just something true about yourself that casts yourself in a favorable light. It doesn't have to be a big deal. Something such as "yeah I go to school over at X" or whatever. Again, don't be pompous just anything cool that you can drop in as a part of giving her a little bit of info about yourself.

Just go out there and have fun with it :D
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 9:37 am 
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oceanx

Thank you for your time and brainpower, to help me :)!
I will probably ask some more ˝stupid˝questions, but i can see that you guys rly help. :)
Ty again man!
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Pleasure's all mine bro. None of the questions were stupid in the least.

Have fun and remember: take action-modify-take action-modify and you'll get where you want to go.
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