I'll try keeping this as short as possible.

I'm a regular South African guy who need help on winning over this girl I've recently met. Truth is, I have no experience whatsoever when it comes to this pua world so bear with me.

Met this girl two months ago, we met in a bus on my way back from collage. I managed to get her numbers that day and 3 days after I decided to call her. We regularly exchanged texts and phone calls for a week before we agreed on meeting. We've met 4 times already in a period of a month and a half and during those meetings the was no intimacy or any sexual tension between us, only talk after talk. On the 4th meeting which was 5 days ago,I decided to tell her how I feel and wanted to know if she feels the same. She replied "I have a boyfriend " .I told her I never asked if she has one or not but if she feels the same way. She replied " Well honestly I do have feelings for you but than as I've said, I have a boyfriend ". As stupid as I was, I remember telling her that since she's dating ,I wont be able to wait for her so I'd rather move on.
I really like this girl and need help on winning her over. So please help me out.

I'm going to try not to be a dick man, but tbh this place is about cultivating abundance and not needing one girl to make all ur dreams come true. Ironically, that "one girl" keeps popping up all over the place once you adopt that mind state.

You're still working on a girl from 2 months ago. Have you stopped to notice how many insanely cute girls have crossed your path in that time?
This is quite possibly the reason she gave the disinterest. If you studied female psych you'd know that she had NO CHOICE other than to be disinterested after the frame you had set.

No one can give you some magic words or lines.

This stuff is a lifestyle and a way of being.

The only solution: Study this shit and get good at it or settle for the next girl who smiles at you. Your choice.

In the meantime, please let this one go. If nothing else, maybe she'll pick up on that vibe and chase a little.

Welcome to the forum

There is more than one girl out there, single ones too. There is no magic line that will help you

Hope you enjoyed the forum

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Forget her.

Next time tell a girl you find her attractive and that you desire her, or whatever is on your mind. Don't get caught up in PUA pussy shit. Tell the girls the truth, and if she doesn't like it, then that's up to her.

start dating other girls and see how much you care about this one

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