Cambridgeshire/Bedfordshire, UK

25

I always liked going out and pulling girls on drunken one night stands and did pretty well getting casual sex sober too.

Anyway a few years back I suffered badly with health and injury, didn't deal well with the fact I'd practical become a cripple and was always fatigued, it completely killed my confidence as I felt I was of low value.

Fast forward to now, I have my health back and feel pretty confident in most situations but still have a hang up on my confidence and self worth when it comes to approaching high quality girls.

So I've read a couple books, The Game and Mark Manson's Models.

I haven't applied any of it and feel like I probably just need a bit of accountability.

For now I mostly bang mediocre girls who are average looking with personality I find boring which is doing nothing for me other than the instant sexual gratification but later not feeling great about it and an instant feeling of disgust immediately after ejaculating.

So I want to start approaching and taking out higher quality girls who I could potentially see myself having a relationship with.

I think day game would be my best bet though I could do with being a bit more sociable in the evenings.

I definitely work too much and could do with switching off a bit more so I guess it would be cool to find a wing locally.

I'm currently a personal trainer, which I love, I'm in front of people all day so I think once I can get over thinking hot girls are any different to other human beings, I'll be pretty good at opening as I have no problem chatting to people.

Anyway that's my introduction, will check out the board and hopefully get the accountability I want to go out and approach!

Welcome to the forum! That's great that you are shooting for higher quality girls. Some guys just settle for average and never progress any further. Feel free to ask any questions and I look forward to hearing more from you.

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