This is my first time registering in a Forum, here's the basics.

I'm prior military, 32 years old, located in Charlotte. Recently divorced and slowly working my way back out there. I had no game before I was married, and the same when I separated. Spent the last six months reading up on the game, and slowly implementing materials and openers.

I have a great career and hobbies that DHV. I'm also in are llar shape. Most 22 year olds think I'm 26 and are shocked when they find out I'm a decade older. However, let's be honest, my game is holding me back!

One of my big goals right now is to learn how to dance. Lost out on a smoking Ukrainian girl, a lovely girl country girl, and another girl (all of them were 22) cause I have two left feet! I'm sure there are other things to improve on otherwise the dancing wouldn't have mattered if the attraction was strong enough, but it's a trend that only I can fix. Luckily, a lot of clubs offer free dance lessons early in the night (Swing, salsa, line, etc). Gonna hit those up and YouTube vids.

Other than that, need to work on approaching and opening. I'm pretty passive, I tend eavesdrop and wait for a great talking point before I enter a set. I'm also good at opening a set to get other guys (or girls) as long as the target isn't for me. Proof I'm still outcome dependent.

Anyway, this is the start of my journey! Wish me luck!

-FJ