Hello players,

Im new to the pua community but not new to the game. Im not fimiliar with all the language used here but im sure the technics are similar in some cases. Anyway im here to master the art. So when i heard of the PUA lifestyle I knew i had to become one. I have many stories,experiences and life threatning runins. I have alot to learn and alot to teach aswell for those willing to take advice.

So ill introduce myself.

Mexican
29
Architect/photographer/hiphop producer/ esl tutor and i paint shit" (i like art)
I travel alot and i dont have money but i make it work..... Did i say im mexican? And i live in mexico!!!
Not romantic
Might even say im always a dick to girlfriends
I dont buy flowers

I am however very creative and come up with unique gifts for especial ocations...
I have my own place
So my finishing move is coocking a meal then a movie in my bedroom (projector) and magic happens.

Strong points getting girls to fall for anything i say...
Attention grabber


Weak area opening....
I have trouble approaching the girls i spot.
Unless she approaches or a set joins mine im fucking lame....

However ive been working on new technics just opening to random people just as practice. I think in two weeks i will go out test the new ideas....
Which is also why i found the forum. Need advice just getting the balls to go up to any 10 regardless of place or set.

Alright players,
I hope you take me as one of your own. Looking foward to this new run,

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"Im going for your sister"

Be humble. It sounds like you're trying to have this "I don't need help, I get SO much pussy!" attitude, but you're asking for help. That's a common thing in new guys. I started out in a similar position to you - I could get pussy with or without this shit. Most people here can they just want more/better/a specific girl that they're struggling with and choose to waste their time with forum advice on how to steal her from her new boyfriend.

Anyway... there's a thread somewhere about approach anxiety. Basically just walk through a public place and start making eye contact with girls (not just hot ones) - you'll notice that most just ignore you, that's not a problem lol it just happens. Then when that gets too easy, start smiling. When that gets too easy, start saying hello. When that gets too easy, go into shops or whatever and start talking to staff, joking around with them etc. When that's too easy, start asking strangers for directions/the time. When that gets too easy, start talking to strangers and having random conversations. When that gets too easy, up the standards of who you talk to (make it only females)

See the pattern? But set yourself limits "Right I'll smile at 100, then I'll say hello to 30, then I'll talk to 20 shop workers, then I'll ask 30 people for the time"

Try to find the thread, or YouTube "Corey Wayne approach" (he has a video explaining the exact same technique)

I'd also suggest for anybody on the planet to read:

1. Dale Carnegie - How to Win Friends and Influence People

2. Corey Wayne's book (I forget the name, but I've read it 6 times out of 10)...just Google Corey Wayne Scribd (or go to his website, sign up, it's free to read the book)

Only take the advice if you actually do want to improve your life, though. It's powerful stuff so don't use it to be a dick and break hears like I have.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Thanks for pointing that out man, i dont wont to seem cocky or arragant....
i definitly need help, and i will look into those books i have plenty of time to read at work. Although my game is not bad im no where near your guys level. So all advice is welcomed.

Where im at right now;

I can smile to random girls, say hi, and always try the asking for directions bit. Recently went to colombia and i was fearless. Any girl i liked i approached. But thats being the tourist. At home i cant do the same. :/

Approaching became easy last year when i had my dad visit. I noticed in days, all the neighbor ladies would ask for him. He just talked to everyone while i passed unoticed... Wtf" i needed to use his game. So i added that to my routine. It works. And it feels great to get goodmornings from neighbors. From there i moved up....
But where im stuck....
At the gym i have no idea how to approach a 7... I feel ill get rejected and feel i have nothing to open with.
And most recently.... What made look for help...

In a bus stop i saw a 10, im talking perfect 10 but not slutty, the kind of girl you take home to meet the folks.
I sat next to her and ask how to get to certain place, she replied i followed with a quick "are you sure" you dont sound like you know" she giggled and said trust me i wont lose you....
I felt i was in... Getting back on the bus i had a few more words.....

Then my brother said... "Hey ur being that guy our sister hates"
So i dropped my plan and just sat quitely... Thinking if i really was being that guy that doesnt leave....
I regreted not finishing because i could not get her off my mind the next day. Plus there were gigles and a few ioi's i felt i shouldnt have listened to my brother.

To be fair though.... I had run out of things to say. I had no next move....
Unless im being approached back my game dies.... I had no fucking clue how can i get her interested....
So for the next few days i felt i have shit game.... I started reading around... And i have so much to learn...

I like ur advice about smiling, saying hi that all works. It builds confidence.
What do you recomend i do to open the 7 at the gym?
Im all ears man... Fuck pride... Nothing wrong in getting help.

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"Im going for your sister"

Your attitude, seems well suited to that of Jason Capital. YouTube "Jason Capital girl at the gym" and it'll give you some ideas on how to open her. Jason Capital is like a mixture of Adam Lyons (good game in every situation) and RSD Julien (cocky, and aware that he's enough... but I don't think his game is incredible)

Another huge tip is to not assume that everybody on this forum is a god with women most have only been here for a couple of months, and 99% are couch PUA's who know a lot, but are yet to make a single approach.

You'll never get over approach anxiety, but you'll definitely learn to almost enjoy it. Maybe get a job in a bar, or in sales - they both help with AA.

Watch Corey Wayne and Jason Capital videos a lot. The most important tip I've given you so far, is to read Corey Wayne's book. I went from 6's to 8's with that book alone

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Nice, ill check all these out.... I picked up the game this week... Found it interesting.... Funny you mention the bar scene... Two years ago i owned a club out here in mexico big hophop club....all the staff got women everynight.... Except for me.... Because i had my girlfriend around the whole time... It was so stressful to see the waiters get numbers while i couldnt even make eye contact... My ex Girl was crazy jealous....

I lost it i ran away from everything... Money, club, restaurant i wanted to be free and get back to the game....so two years later im doing well... But could use alot more technic.... So ill check those books and videos man....
Thanks...

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"Im going for your sister"

And the gym girl is the next mission so ill check that video out....

Thanks for the reply...

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"Im going for your sister"