Hello folks,
My name is Pagan (Alias). I am new to the PUA world in the practical sense but mostly theory based knowledge over the past year or so.
About me: I am a 26 year old male,
Country of Origin: India.
Country located in: Cyprus (Greece, Mediterranean)
Status: Student so not so big on the money factor.
Looks: Not muscular, not chubby either. Average me. Compensate looks by dynamic personality (May need some tweaks) Compared to the hunky well built Greek males I am merely 2/10 which is the other way around when it comes to the personality point of view. so I have an advantage there.
Objective: To master the art of PUA (inspired by various youtube videos by Gambler, RSD Tyler etc.)
Reason: The obsession of mastering the skill just for the sake of it/ getting laid/ creates a sense of power image.
White Lie Persona: Some of you may simply end up judging me but I try to adapt to my surrounding and my tools are white lies.
For those who my ponder on the very definition of a "white lie", I would simply define it as a lie that does not really hurt a person but merely manipulate with the very perception of the way a person sees me. An icebreaker sort of. The place I live in at the moment is quite racist for the people of my kind (Indians) due to them being mostly of lesser social strata, poor english speakers and do not carry themselves with a sense of grace and sophistication. Perhaps this may origin all in my head. But either way I portray myself as a Half Indian-American and I pull it off good. I can be a convincing liar btw
but I do this merely to make the other party comfortably transition from their existing perception to a new interesting one which by the way has got me good results so far, non PUA related relations, friend circles etc.
As to Peacocking I am not really a big fan of that, kinda makes it feel to tacky and uncomfortable. But I do strap on my Ukulele which I perceive to be a lady magnet. I fairly play well too.
Experience So far: I used to have a helluva time, even approaching a women (lots of social anxiety, i-am-not-good-enough image factor, stuttering, negging too far etc.)
Thanks to inspiration from various veterans on the Youtube, I finally have achieved substantial progress with the approach and opening and am even able to secure phone numbers from 9/10 girls!!
Problems encountered: Unable to get progress past phone number stage. I mean I end up talking to the girl by texting a couple of times but I don't know what happens but this has happened with EVERY girl so far! She just stops responding all together! Its not like I be creepy or anything. Perhaps I do reflect a sense of neediness, but I did try to cope with that, but clearly I have a lot of work to do. I want to be able to get her in bed. I need to be able to do this a few times before I start really figuring out what i want more of the game. Trying to keep simple for now and I seek the guidance of the elder gods the veterans of the game. Hence I enter officially into this world of PUA forum.
CHAT