Hello Everyone
My Username is Alcatrazcgp, im Also known as Alex
i had Anxiety and i avoided any social contact for a long time
a year ago i met a girl online and she really changed my life, i wanted to be the man i wanted to be for myself and her, sadly, at first i didnt make a good impression, the good news is i am now here wanting to make a change, i want to learn how to be better, also i never met the girl in person, (yes we still talk)
sadly, she has a boyfriend and i want to change that.
I seek advice, How do i be better? How can i improve? how do i replace the boyfriend?
Thank you for reading and have a great day

You have come to the right place and I have many techniques and insight for you to improve in all areas of your life not just gaming.
The answers to these questions aren't exactly simple and will not turn around overnight. Also I want you to forget the boyfriend for now and you don't want to better yourself for the girl. You want to do it for yourself, you want to become a new confident man who has value.

You had anxiety?

Does that mean you have gotten over this? (please answer this)

I need to know things in more detail to help you improve, but as I always say THE GAME IS CONFIDENCE. You need to believe you have value (creating inner-game) and display your value to women (with various techniques). You can't put a woman on a pedestal like you are doing right now. That's a big problem.

You want to be a better man because you want to have a better life and she's not your life (she never should be, no one should be) Right now you need to step back from the situation and not invest so much because she obviously isn't investing much since she's with another man. You have to understand this and read the signs.

If you are really seeking help and improvement in your life and with women, this is something I can do for you, but only if you are serious about this and will take advice and actually use it. Don't get tunnel vision and think she's a goddess because that's what it sounds like you are doing and that will only bring you misery.

PM me if you are interested and give me some more details about your problems and why you had no social contact

by the way, i sent you a pm, im not sure if it reached you.

Welcome!

One of the first things you should learn here is to not be hung up and so dedicated to just one girl.

Also, if you want to be WORTHY of ever replacing ANYBODY, you gotta really put forth a tremendous effort into transforming into your best self. That will include getting better with women in general. That'll take a lot of practice. But that's what this site is here for - to help guide you with this practice.

Good luck and have fun.