| Hello,
my name is not of any importance. I am a 22 year old guy located at Kaiserslautern, Germany. One of my friends recommended the book "The Game", which is how I got knowledge of this PUA-society. Before, I have never studied pick up, though I have been practicing a lot (see back story/prior experiences)
Hobbies/Passions:
drinking beer, going out, sciences, sports: running, swimming, occasionally volleyball and climbing, drawing, travelling
Backstory:
I can easily meet people and make new friends, however, I never kissed a girl until I was 20, and I did not now how to get in this 'kiss-ready' situation. I think, if I can kiss her I can fuck her, but I usually act shy when I am around women. I rarely get to kiss women. Therefore my goals:
Goals (to be archieved in order)
- be more confident
- get phone numbers
- behave better around women, be less shy
- get better at dating/talking/writing
- Induce deliberately this 'kiss-ready' situation.
- sleep with exactly 30 women (long-term goal)
Lost virginity:
However, one day at a party, something change: I approached a girl, we changed a few words and made out. Just like that. She left after a few minutes. Maybe an hour later on the dance-floor, I started dancing with a blonde and, again, after a few minutes of dancing we made out. When I asked for her name she left without a word. As the party was going to its end, I met an other girl, just standing there. I took her to the dance-floor, then asked her if she wanted to leave ... so we made out and went to her place, where I fucked her. This is where I lost my virginity. I don't know the name of any of those girls. I don't know what happened that night, I have now idea and I could never reproduce it since.
At a party
I was at a party, alcohol level average. I approached a group of three girls. After a few minutes of talked, I held out my hand to the smallest one of these girls. She took my hands and we started to dance. We danced close to each other, so I figured this was the right moment to kiss her. I leaned in, but she turned her head away and told me she had a boyfriend. Just one small kiss, I begged her. She refused. However we continued to dance until she eventually left. I saw her at two occasions, where I just ignored her entirely. Three weeks later, I was at a club. I started to dance with her, and we made out. I took a tea bag, I had in my pocket, and asked her if she wanted to drink a tea at my place. She agreed. On the way there, a pressed her against a wall, where we made out again, and I let my hand slide down her pants. She was surprised, and went to my place, where we did not drink any tea.
At the club, four days later
There was a group of people, where a friend was just visiting for a few days. I first talked to my friends, then asked her what she was doing here. I conversed with here, until a took her hand. We danced, and I made out with her. However, when I asked her if she wanted to leave, she agreed, but she made clear, that there wouldn't be any sex, because she was religious. I chose to stay, never seen her again.
At the club, one day later
I met a girl I already knew. After dancing we made out. She told me she was a virgin, and that she never had made out with a guy before.
At a festival, several weeks later
I had a few beer. At the urinal, I met a guy, who seemed to be from UK. After conversing a bit, I asked him if he didn't know any Dutch girls, since I speak it. We went immediately went and he introduced me to a friend of him, a half English and half Durch girl. I spoke Dutch to her. I realised she was fascinated, so we started to kiss a bit. As the group told me they were leaving, she asked me if I wanted to come along. I said: I don't know how to get home from your place. Tactical mistake, I had no phone number, no address. I never saw her again.
A girl I met, months later
I met a girl. We started spending time together, like: going out, going to cinema, dancing and going to a night club. I never kissed her once.
At a party, during the time I met the girl
I was invited to a friends party, where I knew just two or three people I guess. As they had just moved in, they had a whole wall, where one could just take the sharpie and draw something on the wall. I drew a face. A girl was impressed, and we set down, where I asked her, what she wanted to have drawn and I drew it on balloons lying around. She edged closer, and as our face nearly touched I moved in and kissed her. At one point, I got her phone number. We went to her place a few minutes afterwards. However, she told me we could never see each other again, as she had a boyfriend, and that I should not call or text her. I did anyways a few days after ... no reaction.
Another girl I met, months later
Again, I met a girl, We started spending a lot of time together. At one point I asked her out, she agreed. The plan was go and grab something to eat, and then join the other. However, at the dinner, she casually mentioned she had a boyfriend. Needless to say I didn't stay long with the others afterwards. However, her and I, we continued to spend time together. A week had passed, she was going home, there was a party where she was going with her boyfriend. Somehow, he cheated on her at the same party, which induced her texting me. A few days later, I went with her at a friends party. She slept at my place that night, I gave her my bed, and I lay down on the carpet. She didn't want me to sleep on the carpet, so slipped under the blanked. We made out and had sex. A few days later she told me she forgave her ex, and that they were back together.
8 months later
Here I am. Between those important events I always tried to meet new people and get girl's phone-numbers (which I most times succeeded). However, I never kissed or even came close to a kiss with one of those other girls.
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