| Hey everyone! This is my first post and its supposed to be an introductory one, so let me share.
My chosen name is Jewse, and its a name that a friend gave to me years ago and just kinda stuck as a nickname, even though its not necessarily a great one. I'm 17, turning 18 in June, and I live in a small town in South Africa.
I was never really bad with girls, in fact I actually have a bit of natural talent in me I believe. Got my first girlfriend at 11, when I was 12 I got a new girlfriend and had my first 'sexual' experiences. Going up her shirt and fondling her mostly, which was pretty crazy stuff, although we had to break it off cause she was leaving to high school and I was a year younger. (older chicks, yeah!)
Come high school, I started dating that same girl again, this time things go a little further, never actually slept with her but got pretty close. After we broke up though, it was a pretty rough time for me, probably one of the hardest times of my teenage life, really. This heartbreak left me a little scarred, and it set me off on a more introspective path. Made me more vulnerable around people, a little less confident and assured.
Also, I'm naturally a bit of an introvert, and one who loves old films and books and who's interested in philosophy and psychology and all those great things, which needless to say didn't make me much of a chick magnet, although being a good guitarist did help.
Pass along a few years to 2014, my second last year of high school. I got a serious, beautiful girlfriend (thankfully she was intellectual and somehow fell for me through our mutual interests,) and I lost my virginity to her, not bad eh?
A few months into our relationship, I discovered "The Game" by Neil Strauss AKA Style, and it kind of blew me away. It made me look at how relationships are built and how attraction works and really made me consider many things I'd never thought of before.
That was about 4 months ago. Now I'm single, and trying to practice pickup. I haven't really narrowed myself down to any specific pickup style, I'm really just trying to find things that work and amalgamate them into something that works for me. I found this forum and have been reading for awhile, but I finally took the plunge and decided to start posting tonight, cause I really wanna kick my game up into the next level.
Sorry for the super long post, but thanks to anyone who read till here. Hope to see you all elsewhere on the forum!
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