I read the book the game. I have never really tried to follow steps or tried any techniques before. But I, like most men, have questions. I will most likely sound stupid, but we all start somewhere. So I started talking to this girl over Tinder (there is the stupid part). She eventually gave me her number (I didnt ask). She lives quite close to me. I have been wanting to actually meet her for a couple weeks now. We snapchat a lot, text some as well. She says she is nervous about meeting me but thinks I am attractive. I feel that I am annoying her, and making myself look like a creep in her eyes. I know we will get along, we share music interests which is a huge thing, we both talked about how we both kind of want the same thing (relationship wise). But I have not really texted her recently. What should I do/ say to change that?

Welcome. How long has it been since you two spoke via text or snapchat? A good date idea would be a music venue - opera, symphony, honkey tonk, or whatever you guys are into. It's a public place and it revolves around stuff you both like so it should be an acceptable date. If its only been a couple of days since you last spoke just message her straight out and tell her, "Hey, I'm thinking of going to the ____ on ______ and remembered you like _____ music would you want to tag along?" or just straight ask her out, either one you are most comfortable with.

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The only thing that is bad about this is that I have no car at this time. I don't think many women/girls want to waste time with a guy who does not drive.