Hello everyone,

I've heard about PUA long time ago, but I have never really tried it out. As always it is the fear of rejection, failure and all other fears. But recently I have done life coaching and I have understood a lot of things about how to create space for the fear inside me and do the things that I want, like being more social and ultimately be confident around women. I know what social exercises I need to do and I did a lot of them, but I am still not there yet and I feel like I am lacking self motivation and consistency.

I really want to be part of the community where these things are discussed and hope that this will help me stay on track on where I am at, and stay motivated.

Cheers

Welcome to the forums. That is awesome that you have done life coaching. As I suggest to most people on the forum you really need to start working to be the best YOU you can be, and make yourself happy before seeking to make others happy. That isn't a popular answer for most people wanting a quick fix to meet women but it is the best place to start your journey.

There are plenty of tips, tricks, challenges and techniques here to help you along you way. A suggest from an old PUA to a new one would be to be yourself as much as you can be, and think of PUA like a buffet line. There are all kinds of "game" out there. Find what you think fits your personality best where you need help talking to women, and don't mold yourself into someone else's style.

Think of your journey is a long trip up a mountain. You have a backpack and a packing list of supplies you are pretty sure you need to get to the top of the mountain. On the forum you have thousands of guys offering advice - "If you use this rope, you have to go an indirect way but you get to the top." but "If you use this rope, you go directly to the top, but not all the time." There is only so much room in your backpack, you can only carry so much weight, and the journey is long or you will weigh yourself down with all the knowledge out there and never make it. Pick the tools you want to use carefully as you would for a long trip.

CHEERS!

J

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