| Let me introduce myself,
I'm 28 years old, and last week found out I'm getting a divorce. My soon to be ex-wife has crushed me in a way, and I've come to the very quick realization that I need to get my game back.
Now, I've never had any honed-game. I am a good looking dude, probably a 7 I would imagine. I'm skinny but not in an awkward way. I have arm tattoos (spider webs on the elbows, too, which I think makes me look sexier), I always gel my hair, wear dark blue jeans and cowboy boots (I'm not a redneck, I'm from Texas, and we just tend to wear boots).
I'm successful in my career. I have a good outgoing personality, for the most part. I am great at telling stories in crowds, and people tend to like me, for the most part. People always know who I am because of my stories and/or strange opinions. I collect antiques, and have a vast array of knowledge on god knows how many subjects. I'm well rounded, I can take part in nearly any conversation. So I have that going for me.
When I met my wife (soon to be ex wife), I had read for about four weeks about the PUA community, and practiced a few things. I joined the military (my current career) and this is how I got to meet and marry my wife. I hadn't honed any PUA technique at all, but the very little I did know, and used on her to some degree, got me married and happy. She is an 8, typically.
Anwyay, I have two kids now. As soon as I found out that I'm getting this divorce, I hauled ass to my bookstore and got The Game so I could really get into it this time. The first, and most obvious thing: No, I am not 100% ready to put everything into practice. I've been married for almost 8 years and deeply loved my wife, but things went to shit in less than 2 months. I still love my wife, and that will take some time to get over.
So here are my goals:
#1 Start Studying Pick Up Technique Now, Practice small things, so that when I'm ready for action, I have a leg up. I figure this will take me approximately 1 month, to get to the point where I can actively* seek other women
I say actively, because if a girl comes along before this time, and I get with her, then that will just be by happenstance, and not because of any specific game I'm throwing. I foresee this as a possibility.
#2 Develop a method to utilize my kids as wingmen, of sorts. Now that sounds fucked up, but you have to see it from my point of view. Because of this life's mess, I'm going to be with my kids more - alone. I love women, a lot, and I even love women I can just hang out with and talk to, and watch a movie with (with sex in the end, of course). So I'm figuring that with my kids as lures (that sounds fucked up), I have the potential to attract some women that don't mind just hanging out at my house, cooking dinner, playing house type of shit; with sex.
#3 Get a vasectomy. I love my two kids, but God do I hate children. My wife was fixed, so there was 0% worry of me having another kid, which I have always been thankful for. I need to continue this, and a vasectomy is the only way to solve this.
#4 Do not get tied down. When I met my wife, I had only been with four women. I had never thought about actually cheating on my wife, but I did fantasize enough about being with a variety of women. So, for the time being, my goal is to get with as many girls as possible, and let them come and play house with me; with sex.
About the play house thing. It may sound fucking stupid, but I've grown accustomed to true affection from a woman. Sex, then chilling out and watching some Forensic Files, or some other shit. I have played house, with sex, before, and not been boyfriend/girlfriend. Before I got married, I had this girl who would come over and help me with laundry, watch tv, have sex; whatever, and it was great. What was greater is how I told her all the time I cannot be her boyfriend, because I didn't want to be tied down; and she agreed. I played her (and I also really liked her) so well, that when I got the flu one time, she nursed me for three days.
So. I know my goals are obtainable, and I will accomplish them.
I'm glad to be on the forum!
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