Hey everyone. I'm a 25 year old black male. Carib but Toronto born.
I'm living in Japan (Osaka) for a few months and I'm working on building myself up.

I'd been reading back into this stuff for the past little while and I'd really like to gain consistency and work over my hills. ( I studied it a few years back to transform myself from an introverted mute into a moderately effective extrovert. ) I can get attractive women but I'm not just going for that.

The trigger to step out here and post something was because tonight i had a bizarre situation.
Met a girl some would say 10 ( Stacked Japanese woman. Tall and blonde Thick build). Things were breezy for the most part. I'm a dancer as well so things at the club were quite smooth. We danced and had a good time for a bit, and got kinda close. It was hot so we went for drinks. She unnoticed to me didn't bring her purse to the bar. That was after the order. I said the next set was on her. She got fussy then started to try and ignore me for the rest of the night. (mind you I had an amazing time independent of her and met quite a few other women tonight) - Danced my ass off haha.

Summary, I don't like losing. I know something in there must have been my fault. Rapport building possibly, or some possible body language cues. Also she might've thought i was cheap * though that makes the least sense. in terms of her shutting down. * Also culturally that might've factored in as embarrassment (though what she was wearing, it'd make 0 sense)

The push and pull was good. Preapproval was on point. I'm usually the best dancer in the building so that's not a problem either. Maybe she required a more clear disqualification up front. Iois were solid but I've also had stronger ones * from other women tonight*
Anyways, you can get the gist of what/ how I'm thinking right now.
Attraction -lock in, Rapport, moderate, seduction ridiculous / almost nonexistent here )
Maybe I solved part of it in just typing this haha.

Right now I'm at the point where I want real consistency.
Things have gone well in cases with lower number ranked ones, but that's not the level I want to stay at.

Pulling 7-8's is ok but I want to get on the 10 level consistently.
I really really don't like losing the game.
So I'm here and ready to just study my ass off to get this whole thing right.