Hi everyone, i'm just trying to reevaluate my gaming skills since i realized a while ago that i had hit a very low point internally... Self esteem not good, suffering from social anxiety andthat sort of shit. I'm a good looking guy, hit the gym and have a fairly muscular body, kind of chuby and tall 23 yo. At 21 I was having a lot of sex, meeting a lot of girls got drunk and that stuff... then it became obvious to me that i wasn't getting any quality girls or even the grils i wanted, i just passed by and expected the best. I started pitfalling into a self worth slashing and now that i'm 23, I think after a lot of quality reading, secifically Neil Strauss selection of a seducers library, I'm regaining myself and started learning PUA techniques. Now i want to erradicate alcohol from the getting laid equation and just getting the girls i choose. Been practicing the game for about 2 months (Conciously) and Trying to get off a 6 month dry spell.

Everyday I'll be trying something new to get my lifestyle in order.

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Keep us updated.

I'm more or less in the same.boat. Kind of shy. Less than ideal self worth. I'm tall, muscular, dark. I've also been told handsome. Need to work on just game in general. My thing is work though. I work a lot. Good money but long hours. I work in a small college town and there's a gym at the college I go to after work (in the mornings). I get some looks but due to my hours, it's hard to do anything else ya know? Plus they got their workout going on, I got mines. All these girls just come and go and I gotta worry about work and sleep. Pretty frustrating. I personally take it a lil hard.

Feeling better already.

Focusing on health and reading now. Getting updated on some club game thanks to Skills360 and hopefully I'll put in practice this week.

Self worth increasing steadily and confidence is solid.

Great support from everyone.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

Exactly me, except I havent gotten back into form yet. I think I started learning this waay to early, in my teens. Always feeling down on myself because I felt I wasn't doing good enough. Doing therapy now so it's getting better i guess
Keep us posted on how you do man, good luck

Welcome to the PUA community

i've been around for years so don't hesitate to ask me personally any questions

you will soon realize that being chubby or looks are irrelevant when it comes to pick up

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Progresse a lot in terms of confidence and self worth. I walk into the gym now and feel the looks... My talking has become more paced... And in general, I think more clearly about daily tasks and goals. Looking forward to sarge with this new attitude.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

Last night I finally ended my dry spell... had sex the whole night and in the morning. She would yell nasty things at me like and was overall amazing sex.

My approach at first was very beta, just asking if she wanted to dance and as she rejected me I did some cold reading on her of how boring and routinary her life was (Long shot)... and she got a look in her eyes that told she was in.

I feel much better now about my whole self. Feeling tough, looking tough.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

Last thursday I graduated... It feels pretty good but not as good as I was expecting. The other good part is I ALMOST ended up having sex in the girls bathroom... because some friends of the girl got in. The night was awesome at the party but I had to leave because one of my friends got in a fight and I jumped in to break them up, but the girl was gone when I came back from that.

Life is simpler now. Gaming helped a world to get my confidence back... waiting to get back home and start sending CV to companies. Next is getting a job I'm passionate about.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

Well here I am again, and things feel great actually... My parents are really positive about my chances of getting a good job I like and they don't interfere when I take things on my hands.

Gaming is gonna be interesting, being in a small town with high social pressure after being in a big city where almost every night you met new people... Cold approach seems not viable for quality girls anymore (Unless they are drunk of course which I don't do anymore).

I'm halfway on the Mystery Method, just to see what's up with it. It's amazing how that guy summarized many social aspects and visual cues in 200 or so pages.

Sadly I got wasted on new years eve... small setback that won't happen again.

Focusing now on building a huge social circle and DHV a lot.

Cya

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

Well well.... keeping things updated.

It's been two week since my last post and.... I haven't found a job... haven't had sex... and very far from even making out.

My last couple of nights out have been so dissapointing. Here it seems to be that very tiny bars are the trend... and that's definitely not my scene but anyways, I'm trying to get used to it. Girls seem to look at me, they feel who I am. But the IOI's are not strong enough for me to jst go for it as it was before.

I think I'll leave the PUA thing aside for a short while and focus exclusively on the job thing... not having money and depending on daddy is getting to my nerves now...

Hopefully... my next post will be a happy one.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

Everything seems to be turning around now! Got some interviews and girls along the way.

I stumbled upon an awesome piece of approaching advice last sunday... Easy to follow and effective. No BS, no complicated stuff. Look for girlschase on google, good material.

This page made me realize how much stupid stuff I got into my head and encouraged me to dump some of it and keep what I consider Useful in my head (Yeah, just like that). And success came with this action.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.