I am 16 almost 17 years old and i have never really had a true girlfriend.I don't have many friends but I am kinda ambitious,have good jokes and i look ok but I don't know what to talk about with a girl..

Welcome, you're lucky you are getting in so early. Want to be the player of the school? Just get a stable GF? Prom King? Well Prom king may be pushing it as being a PUA garners you a lot of hate from jealous guys. The same jealousy stupid people give to smart people.

Here is a lesson on keeping a conversation going forever. Read my post in this thread: hello-guys-vt179056.html


If it's not natural talking like that practice it a few times even holding a conversation with yourself is fine, eventually it will be second nature.

Ok, take that new skill you've just learned and develop a natural framework. Fill it in with stuff you find on here.

Here is a basic one:

Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

Then go on here and look over advice on texting and pick what you find the most fun to test out. Employ your texting game (or phone conversation game if you want to do that) and set up the date ASAP

Look for advice on dates (pick the thing you like best)

Look for advice on how to get a kiss

Look for advice on how to get a woman isolated in a place you can have sex.

Look for advice on how to prevent and overcome LMR

Look for advice on how to manage having an abundance of women in your life/managing a one woman relationship.

Answers to each piece of that puzzle can be found here for free. Use the search feature to find out about each topic I gave you, and pick out stuff you find hilarious or powerful.

A more advanced but still basic framework

pre approach - Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

I suggest after you develop your own personal system that you practice practice practice, then look for better skills to fill each section.

The natural framework will allow you to never run out of talking points and have confidence in any situation. If you choose to do this can you do me a favor? I want to see what you create. PM me your completed framework (i don't care how long the PM is tell the whole story). I'll look over it and clean it up and streamline it for you.

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What does kino mean?By the way I don't know much about pu and I haven't aproached many unknownn persons so I don't feel confortable doing this and sometimes I don't have the required guts..

Kino is touching. I told you to do searches on the forum to find these things out. I'm not going to hold your hand through these initial stages. I don't have the patience or time required to deal with answering every single little question you can answer yourself through some initiative. I recommend you get the Dicalro escalation ladder for a strong basic touching system.

You also have inner game problems but they are overcome easily. That's part of the process, everyone goes through it but it's fine. Realize that you are a little pussy right now. Accept that. Get mad IDC, you're a bitch, bitches get emotional when someone points out the truth. Wanna fight? Come to atlanta.

Anyway, after you've come to terms with that you have room to grow. If you are serious about getting this area of your life handled then start creating your framework and stop wasting time asking me questions you can find the answers to on this forum. I wouldn't respond this way had you done some research before just asking the question.

After going to the section that has kino written on the header (the routines section) I saw this post. It took like 30 seconds to find: majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html

To rid yourself of AA it's pretty easy. GO out into the world and just say hi to everyone you meet.Set a number, like forcing yourself to say hi to 10-20 new people every day. If you don't do this it's no ones fault but your own and you will end up like many guys on this forum who have studied PU for 3-4-5+ years and still have AA. Don't have any routines or frameworks in mind. Just say hi and walk off if you want it doesn't matter. Over and over again. Soon saying hi to people will become second nature and you won't have any emotions telling you that what your doing/thinking and what you want are out of alignment. You can start practicing the framework that you've created.

That's all AA is. YOUR emotions telling you to man the fuck up since this is what you want.

The hardest part is getting started. Actually taking action.

You have a sweet, juicy orange in front of you, but to get to the fruit you have to go through the initial work of peeling off the outside layer. All of the thoughts and emotions are just the peel on the orange and when you actually START peeling the orange you'll find it very easy and then you can enjoy the fruit.

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I am a hunter of human excellence. I seek out those individuals who break the norms
and demonstrate to all of us what’s really possible. I learn what those few
extraordinary individuals do that’s different from everybody else, and then emulate
them.

dont worry about fudge - many people will help you out step by step...

if you want to start out small, start with just giving small compliments to girls as you walk by

"hey i like your outfit" or "hey i like your hair"

make sure it is something actually worth complimenting though - if she really does look like shit then it might come as an insult lol

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